People that get cremated still have funerals.
I suppose no dirges for you then.
When I first travelled to Europe, after having visited four countries, I was page when I arrive back to Holland, at the airport.
I was given a reply numbere to call. I called, and it was my Canadian uncle with news that my father had died.
I boarded the next available fight to my home in Chicago. There I contated my family in California, and the funeral had already taken place.
Arriving in Los Angeles, I visited my father's grave.
Then, with my siblings, nephes, nieces and Mother present, and having felt great remorse, I made the announcement the because I had missed my father's funeral, I would never attend a funural to honor his name.
I will not have a funeral. God bless you and keep you close always.