I had a thought that for some will drive them nuts and others become an insight into reality.
I worked with a woman who had some deep seated need issues for support and understanding. She felt her husband did not understand. I knew them both quite well. It was obvious if they both expressed their needs all that would result was disappointment and rejection, which would compound the hurt.
Now in the same situation but with the Lords love working in both peoples lives, the showing of need can be met both by the Lord and by the other party expressing the love that is overflowing from their hearts out of the overflow of the relationship each has with God. Now much of the advances in understanding of what works in counselling situations and what does not is empowering to the gospel and the truth it brings. It shows the sermon on the mount works and super analysis does not.
Doing good things out of an appreciating heart is good for the soul, and rather than running away from the growing understanding of what we are and how we work, we should be embracing it and seeing Gods glory being declared.
A simple example of this is anxiousness, and facing emotion. A christian woman was driven nuts by anxious thoughts, which she resisted which made it worse into panic attacks and relationship breakdown. What worked was beginning to accept being anxious was natural, ok, just a feeling but was not a problem, and meant she should just be careful. She taught herself techniques to deal with stress, visualisation of safety, care, protection, and she could start living normally.
She had tried everything else, from demons, claiming victory in Christ, psychiatric drugs, ECT, counselling, but the approaching her emotions and changing her behaviour worked. For some here this is just too worldly, rather than declaring this is Gods world which he created so take possession of Gods given temple, who you are and how you work.