Your story touched me in the other post you gave your testimony in. God has irrefutably brought you to where you are now; and I can see you believe that, and your character being developed. So, rely on His revelations and guidance all the more in your walk with Him thru the Holy Spirit in the desire to influence your family toward Christ in obedience, knowing all along that if we lift Him up He will draw all men to Himself. Its not so much we do nothing as He does it all, but rather we do as He leads us to do, in accordance with His will. We have been called by God to be co-workers in Christ.. Only thru righteousness can productivity take place in our lives; for His will to be served with power. Don't let Satan dupe you into thinking you must not be truthful in order to make them happy. That is fools gold. Yet always remember to be in the demeanor Christ has given you in your New Creation; to be gentle and respectful at every turn, always wrapped in love. I will keep you in prayer as well, for His Church is to act this way in support.
To transform others' lives, we simply must act according to our relationship with that person premised by our relationship with God. For example, if you are a wife, you will lead your husband to Christ by the hidden beauty of your life. If you are a husband, you must take spiritual leadership, call your wife to obedience, and serve her sacrificially (Eph 5:22-26). If you are a parent, give your children prime time, personal attention, and affectionate love. Teach them, pray with and for them, and call them to obedience (Eph 6:4). If you are a child, you will win your parents to Christ by honoring and obeying them (Eph 6:1-2). If you are a brother or sister, be faithful and self-sacrificing. God has created these relationships; they are the primary ways in which He works.
When we act according to our relationships, we see the Lord moving powerfully. Usually the first reaction is resistance. Things get worse before they get better. The family becomes even more divided. Jesus came "for division. From now on, a household of five will be divided three against two and two against three; father will be split against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against daughter-in-law, daughter-in-law against mother-in-law" (Luke 12:51-53). However, this division is part of the process of reordering the family. When something is put together wrong, it must be dismantled before it can be resembled properly.
During this time of division, we feel worse, worried, and fearful. The devil uses these circumstances to manipulate us into our taking back control of our lives and families. We are like fishermen who have thrown out our lines; but every time we're afraid, worried or resentful, we reel them in a little. Soon the cares we have "cast" on the Lord are back in our hands (see 1 Pt 5:7). Trust the Lord. Keep your family and loved ones in the nail-scarred hands of the crucified and glorified One, Jesus. He is your Savior and your family's Savior.
Your prayers are according to His will and He promises if we ask He will answer. May God embolden you in the confidence of Christ; and may God give you good support tools to help in the actualities of those influences as well, for we know the Bible is good for Teaching, Rebuking, Correcting, and Training in Righteousness. Let the Holy Spirit and His Word be the premise to your restful confidence. Seek and do simply as He makes clear for you to do and He will lift your family up to Himself. Live the normal redemptive life spiritually in your new natural sacrificial lifestyle to these ends in accordance with His will and God will empower you and will be faithful to you and your family for He is God .They must choose, but God will be about your family indeed, as He is using you now to influence them. God bless.
Also, my name is Dan, if you ever want to PM me for more specific tools in helping ... feel free to visit me, what God has given me in grace, I would freely give away.