How to date introverted Christian men?

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clarance91 said:
You should stay away from introvert guys. When a guy is introvert he often have bad self-esteem which often leads to anti-women views and creepiness. Alot of this guys turns into killers/sexual predators./abusers.
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By that logic you should also stay away from people who use computers or smartphones. Everybody knows that computers lead to watching movies which leads to downloading movies illegally with bit torrents which leads to anime which leads to porn...
 
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Lynx said:
By that logic you should also stay away from people who use computers or smartphones. Everybody knows that computers lead to watching movies which leads to downloading movies illegally with bit torrents which leads to anime which leads to porn...
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Help!

I am surrounded by sex offenders, murderers and serial killers. Not to mention the mafia and the worst dictators in history.
 
clarance91 said:
You should stay away from introvert guys. When a guy is introvert he often have bad self-esteem which often leads to anti-women views and creepiness. Alot of this guys turns into killers/sexual predators./abusers.
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How many women have you raped, murdered, and dismembered lately?
 
Lynx said:
By that logic you should also stay away from people who use computers or smartphones. Everybody knows that computers lead to watching movies which leads to downloading movies illegally with bit torrents which leads to anime which leads to porn...
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I can't get past the anime. Anime is too weird for me.
 
Message to all Christian women on CC. Marry Christian a introvert man as soon as possible. You might save him from committing sexual offenses and becoming creepy.
 
clarance91 said:
You should stay away from introvert guys. When a guy is introvert he often have bad self-esteem which often leads to anti-women views and creepiness. Alot of this guys turns into killers/sexual predators./abusers.
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Wow. Let's just broadbrush a large segment of the population with slanderous opinions based on nothing remotely resembling actual research.

Perhaps you need to go upstairs and ask your mom what "introverted" and "extroverted" REALLY mean. Hopefully she has the sense to point you to a reliable source of information.
 
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melita916 said:
If introvert men can turn into serial killers/predators/etc, what do introvert women turn into?

:confused:
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Adele :)

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clarance91 said:
You should stay away from introvert guys. When a guy is introvert he often have bad self-esteem which often leads to anti-women views and creepiness. Alot of this guys turns into killers/sexual predators./abusers.
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If I was responding to you face to face I would be saying something entirely different (shall we say, not nearly so polite).

Your statement is devoid of any factual basis and is an affront to every decent introvert in the world.
 
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clarance91 said:
You should stay away from introvert guys. When a guy is introvert he often have bad self-esteem which often leads to anti-women views and creepiness. Alot of this guys turns into killers/sexual predators./abusers.
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I'm an introvert and I have no problem with my self-esteem. Also, I don't have any anti-women views whatsoever and my post history proves it. Your last sentence is reflects your warped view on this. Your entire post was pure garbage and I am sure that no member on this site is going to take it seriously. You sound like a real whack job.
 
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Well some introverted men do turn out to be serial killers, but not all of them end up that way.... I'm introverted but I don't hate women. I think they're a little crazy but I don't hate them lol...

On the other hand, there was the "Unabomber" (a famous serial killer from the 70's) who was very introverted and said he blamed his mother for ruining his ability to relate well with women. He was also a Harvard math professor! So sometimes introverts are just misunderstood geniuses.... like me :ROFL:
 
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almond641 said:
Hi everyone, I'm a 35-year-old Christian single woman. I'm outgoing, warm and love to serve the church community. However, I find myself drawn to introverted men - those who appear cool, passive and rarely express themselves. They seem to be interested in me as well but it's always hard to get conversation going with them. I don't quite understand what they need/want, and find it frustrating having to take the initiatives, which they often fail or slow to respond to. It seems that they are very uncomfortable being in a big crowd or talking about themselves. I feel very stuck and wonder how to get to know, even date introverted Christian men? How to ask them out and get them talk more about themselves? I appreciate any practical advice from you! Thanks and many blessings.
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Well actually being an introvert myself, one way to get an introvert guy "curious about you" whether romantically or for a friendly conversation is to just "be quiet" I myself appreciate "quiet", that may sound "odd" but see part of being an "introvert" is about being rather "secluded" and needing someone "to talk to" not someone to talk "a lot" seriously I think this is why I have had more "girls" as friends than "guys" because most girls I know basically "leave me be" until I start talking to them or they "catch me off guard" with something interesting or funny.
 
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joefizz said:
Well actually being an introvert myself, one way to get an introvert guy "curious about you" whether romantically or for a friendly conversation is to just "be quiet" I myself appreciate "quiet", that may sound "odd" but see part of being an "introvert" is about being rather "secluded" and needing someone "to talk to" not someone to talk "a lot" seriously I think this is why I have had more "girls" as friends than "guys" because most girls I know basically "leave me be" until I start talking to them or they "catch me off guard" with something interesting or funny.
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts, joefizz. Quietness is so precious in this chaotic world, and that's what I like about introverted men.
 
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