in the USA everyone sees colour and we r brought up that way
That's because there are people in the US that make a lot of money off of racism
And one of our political party uses racism to keep citizens divided.
in the USA everyone sees colour and we r brought up that way
Also the USA has a huge legacy of slavery
There seemed to be a lot of pushback from BLM.
Mr T is more of an orange colour and he always reminded me a little of Garfield.
In the UK , it's considered very bad for white people to use the N word . One think I like , when one of my step daughters was about twelve years old , she asked me what a N was , she had not heard that word until she was twelve years old . I was sad that she had heard it but also glad that she had been alive for 12 years b 4 she had heard it .For me, I personally believe it comes down to the intent of the speaker, and how the recipient will receive it, because what God is truly concerned about is the heart.
If something is said with the "right" intent, like endearment or affection, and done with respect, it might not be ok. It might not be ok even if the speaker means well, but the recipient is hurt by it.
But something is said with an attitude that's ignorant, hateful, and meant to disrespect -- we all know that isn't the manner in which God wants us to speak.
Also, I remember when Obama was president, and he was the first 'black' president the US had ever had...
Hmm... I'm reminded of a story about Sherlock Holmes - a BRITISH detective - and The Adventure Of The Yellow Face.Oh gosh it seems to change every five minutes !
Big Brother TV show on in UK and we have an American housemate . Talking about racism in the USA she said ( I'm paraphrasing ) in the UK people r not brought up to c colour , in the USA everyone sees colour and we r brought up that way . I don't know how true that is but , we do have a friend , his mum and dad got divorced and his mum remarried an American man . They live in Chicago and our friend Lee , goes over to c his mum every couple of years . I hope I'm not gonna offend anyone here but I'm gonna tell u the two things he doesn't like about the USA , the overt racism and he says that a lot of people think it's ok to drink alcohol and then drive . In the UK of course people do drink and drive but , it's considered very bad and a shameful thing to do . People get in a lot of trouble and may loose jobs , friends etc if they get found out . It's very socially unacceptable here . This lady in the Big Brother house did say that there is quite a bit of micro aggression towards black people in the UK and the other black housemates agreed and gave examples .
The younger generations keep moving the goalposts in regard to what we r allowed and r not allowed to say , we oldies can't keep up . One of my friends , only about ten years younger than me , was horrified when I used the word ' retarded ' to describe my neighbours granddaughter . My friend thought that word was insulting , she genuinely didn't realise that it isn't an insult it's an actual adjective . She also didn't know what an adjective is.
Wait, whoops! That was not a post by Lanolin. My bad.Hmm... I'm reminded of a story about Sherlock Holmes - a BRITISH detective - and The Adventure Of The Yellow Face.
And nobody has anything on the middle east for racism. Everybody hates everybody over there.
As for drinking and driving, the Irish beat us fair and square at that. And the Scottish. And the British. French maybe don't beat us, yet, but they're strong contenders.
Lanolin by now you should know to not believe everything you hear.
So what are your thoughts on calling the white people honkys?
I always thought that was pretty funny. Honky!
Ain't a thang in the world wrong with honky tonk. I got some honky tonk music in my collection. Christian, but honky tonk style.So what are your thoughts on calling the white people honkys?
I always thought that was pretty funny. Honky!
It's like any other term we've talked about in this thread.
I might not be white, but my parents and many of my friends are. I hate anything slung at white people to demean them as well.
It generally has a negative connotation when used by strangers, so I definitely don't like it when it's used as an insult, which is usually the intention.
But if it's between friends or family who have the relationship and history, then that's their own private joke.
Or if someone chooses to call themselves that as something humorous (such as here on the forum,) that's their right.
I don't like terms associated with insulting intentions when they're said about strangers (people the speaker has no relationship or history with,) or if the person does it purposely, knowing the recipient doesn't like it.
For me, those are general principles that can apply to any other term or word that could be brought up.
Well black folks call each other the N word all the time all over the place.
Maybe the white people can call each other the H word
Shouldn't be a problem then since they would be doing what the black people are doing, right?
Or, would it be wrong for white people to do that just because they re white?
If so, then that's being racist against the white people.
I'm noticing a lot of double standard type stuff going on especially in the US where minorities can do certain things and it's all good, but if white people did it it's considered racist.
What if the white people created a White Entertainment Network which only shows TV shows with white people?
Black folks have BET that only shows shows with black actors. It is cool for white people to start their own WET ?
(I know, I know, WET sounds like some porn thing so the acronym would need some work)
It's like nobody ever says they are European American.I think "black" is now the most accepted term. The others are outdated and African American was not liked by many black folks because they weren't from Africa. When I was in high school one of my best friends was black.
Homeless people call themselves 'homies'Calling people colored is dated, it's not racist but it's from a racist time so you might cancelled saying it. As for the n word "nga" not "ngr" is urban slang even the mexican and hmong kids use it.
Hey Everyone,
There is a discussion going on in Lynx's Which Witch thread in which this user made the following remark:
When confronted about making a racist statement, he then said this:
As for me, I was raised by white people.
One of my best friends is black, and the rest of my friends and family are a mix of various ethnicities and backgrounds. We sometimes call each other this or that, but it's all born out of love, respect, and the familiarity of having been around each other for decades.
My black friend calls me the whitest white girl he knows. (In case you can't tell by my picture and avatar name, I'm not actually white.) But he's earned the right to say those things to me after almost 25 years of walking through the fires with me when I was going through them. He could call me "Cracker Girl" all day long and I wouldn't think twice, because we have a history that's hard to match.
Everyone in this life has had experience with some form of racism or at least bullying in some way.
The thing that makes the difference to me of whether a term is wrong or not is the relationship between the people involved.
When a stranger/someone unfamiliar with someone calls or refers to them by socially questionable terms or words that have a socially charged history, then yes, I see that as racism -- no matter what ethnicities are involved.
But that's just me, and I realize others feel differently.
Seeing as this is a wide and diverse Christian Community with people from all over the world, and from every race and background, I think it's an important subject to discuss.
What are your thoughts?
I don't know, it depends on the day of the week. How do you keep up with the PC requirements of the day?some black kids, when they have a fight, or intense football game, they will use the n word to trigger opponents, tricking them into mistakes stuff...
So I think probably they use it as a joke, a weapon...
The word itself just mean black, or with history it can mean slave. But we are allowed to say slave, correct?