Mr./Mrs. Perfect.

[Christianrkchk89]

Well theres no one perfect in my eyes Except for God =D

My ideal guy would be a christian, Who reads the bible every day, prays to God, puts God first, Has NO tattoos, will never want or will get tattoos, Is not a man whore (please excuse that word =/) Is mostly quiet but can hold a conversation once you get to know him,Wants to preach the word of God (get into ministry) Would want to adopt kids in the future & not have his own) Does not like slutty girls, Likes learning, A good listener & advice giver & a virgin would be nice.... & most of all someone who wont cheat on you, he is man enough to push or slap the hoe away especially if she knows he has a girl or is married.
I know for a fact they have to believe in God & have fear of him =)
Otherwise me & him have ZERO future together.

Please watch the words you choose to use here in the forums and in chat....we do have teens as young as 13 on this site. Thanks..

 

[MahogonySnail]

Wow the bar's set pretty high NoTearsShed hehehe.

 

[NoTearsShed]

Sorry =/


mahogonysnail : The reason why im still single =/
But maybe its good in a way, i keep away from bad guys or at least try to not talk to them & im happy that God put it in me to only want to date a guy if he loves God =D
& fears God =D
That is a MUST =D

 

[SteffanM]

For me the following is important:

1. She has to be christian (and a protestant, bc if she is not, there would probably be some problems along the way).
2. She must be faithful, just like i am faithful.
3. She has to understand my culture and preferably has to have lived in it (therefore she should origin from Europe, America or any other place that identifies with most of the values I do).
4. She should want to have children one day, bc it is the will of God that we reproduce.

Bonus, but not necessary:
be fun
want to live in Denmark (AWESOME healthinsurance, almost all educations are free except for pilot (unless you join the army)) or somewhere else in Scandinavia. But I would also like to live in the US or Canada once.
be somewhat good at cooking (bc i'm not)
like to go to the cinema
want to learn some danish and/or be willing to let our future kids learn danish (since a big part of my family doesnt speak other languages than danish (and a little bit german).
like to read
not drink too much (in denmark it is very normal to drink quite bit, you can buy alcohol when you are 16).

I guess that's it.

 

[paulou]

a christian woman of course non smoker and does not drink too often,or non drinker.just a woman that's herself and is like a best friend,has a good heart ect. for a lifetime of love and happiness.somebody that you have a connection with.

 

[Kyra]

may I suggest something.Prayer.When I was a little girl,I had a dad who was not a good dad.He did not abuse me he just was not interested in me.How I handle it is I prayed.Every time my dad was not there for me I would pray.they little prayes ...like Jesus when I grow up give me a daddy for my kids that will kiss them good night or Jesus when I grow up give my kids a daddy that will know their birthday or tell them he loves them.I prayed hundreds of those prayers as a little girl and then I grew up and forgot about those prayers but Jesus did not forget.When my daughter was married and my husband was standing up there giving her away and they were singing Butterfly Kisses.It hit me that Jesus had remembered everyone of those prayers from that little girl and answered them Is he perfect No!But he was an answer to prayer.We have been married 39 years

When I read this it touched me so deeply. I want to give you rep but it won't let me. So please know that this post is so glorifying to God, this is the God I know and I am so glad you posted it. Thank you.

 

[kiwi_OT]

Heres my must haves

- Must be adventurous
- Must be calm and patient and honest
- Must be passionately in a relationship with Jesus
- Must be a tea drinker lol
- Must have a cute dent in their forehead when they're concentrating
- Must allow me to be smarter than them in one area and them in another (lol ie computers), and be able to blend them well together
- Must be good with kids
- Must be naturally affectionate
- Must be perfectly imperfect
- Must love cats and dogs
- Must have a collection of funny tshirts

That should do it.. lolololol

 

[kiwi_OT]

Boy I bet finding someone from my list sounds impossible... hehehehe

 

[kiwi_OT]

hmm i would have to say my requirements are...

1.she must be able to do backflips like sonya from mortal kombat
2. must be willing to put me in a sleeper hold and choke me to put me to sleep when i can't sleep
3. must be willing to bring me TP when i get stuck in the bathroom cuase there is no TP
4. has to have prior experience as a ninja assassin
5. must be able to take apart and re assemble a M4 and then do a functions test blind folded
6. Drive a monster truck
7. must love capn crunch cereal
8. must be able to put on make up while driving a car in a highspeed chase
9.be able to run a mile in 5 minutes while wearing high heels
10. know how to set up booby traps with panty hose

HAHAHAHA What a brilliant list!!! All the good luck to ya!

 

[pachacha]

Hmmm.

Big ticket items
- First and foremost, she's got to be a Godly woman.
- Has to be in shape and otherwise physically attractive.
- Needs to be witty and have a ton of relationship/common sense.

Bonuses (take them or leave them. they just sweeten the deal.)
- Curly hair (of the dark brown/red/black variety)
- Short (4'5 to 5'5)
- Loves board games
- Loves to read
- Wants a billion kids / hates birth control
- Hates chronic TV watching
- No kiddies currently
- Likes farms / the outdoors
- Virgin
- Doesn't drink/smoke/swear
- Thinks geeks/dorks/nerds are adorable and sexy
- Likes hoodies
- Loves trees

hey dear u"ve got to pray really hard...
Your list is just tooooo long,
but well, the Lord is love and gives the desires of ones heart...

 

[buckeyegirl700]

Things I look for in a guy.

1. Christian who puts God first in his life.
2. likes animals.
3. likes kids.
4. funny
5.smart
6.under the age of 35
7. sweet
8. honest
9. light brown, medium brown, dark brown hair color
10. tall
11. has pretty eyes
12. sweet
13. creative
14. likes nature
15. Does not drink
16. Does not smoke

 

[windspirit]

One who will love God with every breath within him, like I do.
One who will walk beside me, not in front of or behind me.
One who will take my hand and prayerfully lead our lives together in our marriage.
One who will be patient and gentle with me, kind at heart when I have no clue what I'm doing.
One who will have a love for reaching out to people who don't know God.
One who will have a spirit of gratitude for all things God blesses our life with.
One who will put up with me and my silliness... *grin

 

[FixYourWeave]

My perfect mate has 4 teeth and a shot gun

 

[seoulsearch]

My perfect mate has 4 teeth and a shot gun

Gotta be at least a semi-automatic... shotguns are so old-fashioned and way too slow!

 

[el]

you know whats so cool? when i met my husband we had no one in common & I kept running into him in different suburbs and locations over a 6 week period. met him at the beach, ran into him in pubs, bars, at the pne twice & then finally he said he just had to get my number (we had no one in common so there was no reason for this) I didnt have the Lord at that point in my life so i'm thankful Shawn decided to be unequally yolked.. and when i took the lords name in vain (as was just part of the way i talked, no thought process just words...) anyway he said WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY? I'd never had anyone call me on my bad mouth... he had a harley in his living room roommates beer bottles on the coffee table and a picture of the last supper on the wall. I liked that... not the harley, the last supper! 19 years ago & we are absolutely in love with each other still... God blessed us but i was definitely not the package he would have put together on a list for himself being a believer. within a year though i was... So long story short... if the Lord keeps putting the same person in your path, check it out for it just may be whats right even if its contrary to your list. As far as the unequally yolked thing goes though, I dont think i'd recommend that but i'm sure glad it worked out for me! Now I have the 4 loves of my live! The Lord & Shawn & of course my precious boys. God bless you all in your search for ms. mr. right. Oh btw... for all you girls out there, the only advise i have to you is MEN DONT READ MINDS...If you need a hug tell him cause he's busy thinking about baseball and stuff & its a good idea to remind him of special occasions instead of waiting for him to fail to remember and translating that as him not caring about you.

"Men don't read minds"...Oh I so believe that! especially girls ones..haha... thanks for the post, I loved it! God bless!
~El~

 

[p91]

I need there to be an emotional connection. I have dated a guy who was extremely gorgeous, smart and very determined to succeed in life (Every thing that was on my list before) . He also turned out to be judgmental, cynical, heartless and unwilling to listen to me. I couldn't figure out for the first year we dated that he put up a front just for me. He pretended to care for people just because I wanted to be a social worker. He pretended to read the books I read. He agreed with me on everything, even faith. After year a things started unraveling. He turned out to be the opposite of what he portrayed. So, I have altered my list and here's the list of qualities I need in my Mr. Perfect: (I am sorry if I sound whiny. Life experience has made me a bit bitter recently)

***He should be a Christian***

1) He has to be my soulmate. I should be able to tell him every thing that's on my mind without being afraid of judgment.
2) He should know why I want to do what I want to do and understand that.
3) He should be able to understand my culture and have respect for my Parents and their beliefs even if he doesn't agree with them.
4) He shouldn't pretend to be anything he is not. I want honesty.
5) It's okay if he drinks occasionally, but no smoking. He shouldn't ever expect me to drink.
6) He should be able to provide for his family.
7) He would eat whatever I cooked no matter how badly burnt.

I would like it if he is intellectual, likes to read, wants to do well in school and likes cookies.

 

[lolly88]

wow to be miss perfect or mr perfect??thats really need hard work.. I had try to be perfect but still not working,, people alwys say im nice,good,polite,friendly,cheerful..i admit that im good girl cos i never smoke,never drink alcohol,never take drugs*except medicine*,hate to be rude,dont like yelling...but its still not make perfect because i cant be 100% like God ask us to do...

 

[Jennifleur]

I will never be Miss Perfect, and will always be far from it, but my goal is to constantly strive toward Christ and be ever changing to be more like Him. As God called David a man after His own heart, so I want to be a woman after God's heart. I want to be a woman who fears the Lord, and who seeks Him with all of my heart.

 

[HollyW]

A man who's definitely a family guy. Who isn't surprised by a womans emotional changes or if she has mood swings from time to time. Also a man that can hold his own as far as emotions go. Someone that can be the stronghold in the family when everyone else is crumbling down. An honest man, most definitely, but also a sincere and considerate gentlemen. A definite humanitarian.
I would also like a man who was into the same things as I am or half of the same things as I am into. A man who loves music as much as I do (or maybe an aspiring musician possibly a guitarist, but who's taking names here, HELLO GOD? lol) I kind of go for that whole leather jacket, long hair, rocker look thing but I don't really boast on appearance as long as the guy treats me with love and respect. But, if he looked like Johnny Depp, who am I to complain, tehe.

 

[MissVictoria]

Perfect man:
God-loving.
Patient.
Artistic.
Tall.
Not too skinny.
Honest.
Compassionate.