It's a question of confession. Not condescending. I don't like seeing them personally I find them offputting. I'm confessing that and it's a reality for me. I do think that people who have them often have other issues. So I think there's an indication there and the reality is when we see this kind of thing we do have to Consider that we have no clue what's in their heart. So how was that condescending?That sounds very big of you. Very condescendingly forgiving.... hopefully, you just worded this badly....
Yes.... this is the key statement here... well said...
That's why I said it like I did.... I hoped I was "mis-reading" it.... I agree with you on this.... I have to make myself not pre-judge someone based on appearances.... whether tats, or clothing style, or hair length, etc...It's a question of confession. Not condescending. I don't like seeing them personally I find them offputting. I'm confessing that and it's a reality for me. I do think that people who have them often have other issues. So I think there's an indication there and the reality is when we see this kind of thing we do have to Consider that we have no clue what's in their heart. So how was that condescending?
This is the sentence I was referencing... it sounds condescending, but I understand now, that is not the way you meant it....I try never to shame people who have tattoos
I think I used the word "try" here because I think inside sometimes I feel bad for the other people and maybe I shouldn't because they are OK with their appearance.That's why I said it like I did.... I hoped I was "mis-reading" it.... I agree with you on this.... I have to make myself not pre-judge someone based on appearances.... whether tats, or clothing style, or hair length, etc...
This is the sentence I was referencing... it sounds condescending, but I understand now, that is not the way you meant it....
How big a Pharisee are you willing to be?
we can start over if you wish....My point has been lost within the several posts back and forth. To say the above disregards everything I have said prior to this.
I mean it is now about being right.this is not even about tats anymore, is it...?
It’s actually a preference. For me at least.I mean it is now about being right.
yeah, but the discussion has moved on from that, into damnation to all who oppose. personally, I wont get any, bc another member took time to explain in a caring way why they were bad, not because of all the ones who told me tats were a one-way ticket to hell.It’s actually a preference. For me at least.
Like chocolate or vanilla.
I don’t like tats !
yeah, but the discussion has moved on from that, into damnation to all who oppose. personally, I wont get any, bc another member took time to explain in a caring way why they were bad, not because of all the ones who told me tats were a one-way ticket to hell.
Yeah....the girl in the video i posted getting her tattoos lasered off said she was a lot more mature now than when she got them....and she is tired of people seeing only the tattoos instead of her.It’s okay if people are passionate about a topic. Forgiveness is part of our blessings too.
Also when a persons says “you’re going to Hell” realize that it’s not God saying that but just another sinner.
But I do agree with @JohnDB and a few others including a former cop who gave their opinions about tats.
It’s about perceptions and how you’re perceived not to mention that for me this goes back to dumb trends started by liberals.
To make this even more personal I can say that even if my kids (boys) get tats I will tell them that I hate the tattoo but I’m not going to disown them or anything like that.
But if I feel bad for somebody because of appearance, and I know the way that other people treat them, sometimes it creates a barrier and I don't want to have that. So the many social barriers in the whole question of appearance or clothing or anything of that nature is complicated. Because I've had situations where I was too friendly with people who I felt uncomfortable with, and it made it even worse because they interpreted it as me being open to some deeper friendship and I found that difficult for various reasons.
Lots of "might" in that video, but I couldn't hear it too well for all the axe grinding.
I don't think disowning your children is the solution... love never failsIt’s okay if people are passionate about a topic. Forgiveness is part of our blessings too.
Also when a persons says “you’re going to Hell” realize that it’s not God saying that but just another sinner.
But I do agree with @JohnDB and a few others including a former cop who gave their opinions about tats.
It’s about perceptions and how you’re perceived not to mention that for me this goes back to dumb trends started by liberals.
To make this even more personal I can say that even if my kids (boys) get tats I will tell them that I hate the tattoo but I’m not going to disown them or anything like that.