I have discovered that many christian singles especially Christian women are underestimating online christian dating. I once asked several christian girls that are single if they will consider online christian dating and they said as follows “ i don't like online dating” “i don't want my picture to be online” “its not the proper way of dating” “the date i meet online can be anybody”. These christian girls believe that it is better to find a christian date in their church. But the truth is that online christian dating is the easiest way to find a true christian date because you have more people to choose from online than in your church. Also what if your dream partner lives miles away from you? You will never get to meet in the church because he/she lives miles away from you , the only way you will meet that dream partner is online. Also you don't have to put your picture online, all you need is a strong profile headline that will attract true Christians to your profile. In regards to “the date i meet online can be anybody” of course that's true, the date you meet online can be anybody i.e the date you meet online may be a liar, thief, fraudster or a false christian. but the date you meet online may also be a true christian that will end up to be your dream partner. Also note that it is wrong to believe that the date you meet in your Church is automatically a true christian. Just because you see an attractive man or woman in the church choir or youth pastoral team, that does not automatically make them true Christians. For example i used to know a man from high school who was gay but later on in life he joined a church, the Church choir and the youth pastoral team. and he has managed to get himself one of the Christian girls in the Church as a wife. but his wife does not know that her "husband"is gay and she believes that he is a true christian just because he is a church goer. This just shows you that the same way the date you meet online can be anybody, the date you meet in your church can also be anybody. The date you meet in your church may be a liar, thief, fraudster, false christian and as we now know the date you meet in your church may be gay, but the date you meet in your church may also be a true christian that will end up to be your dream partner. The point here is that in regards to safety the date you meet online and the date you meet in the church are the same, the only advantage online dating has is that you have more people to choose from. But yet many Christians are underestimating online christian dating? My advice to single Christians is to go online for a date, but not just any site, make sure it is a Christan dating site. but when you go online you have to be careful. My experience shows that only 3 out of every 10 people on christian dating sites are true Christians. this means that if 10 people contact you on a christian dating site in one day then you can be assured that 7 of those people that contacted you may be false Christians but the good news is that you will at least still get 3 good Christian potential partners in that day which is probably a higher figure than what you will get if you relied solely on meeting a Christian partner in your church.
So the question here is Why are single Christians underestimating online christian dating?
So the question here is Why are single Christians underestimating online christian dating?