I think the object gets lost as to the setting up of the completely new order when gathering together.
The time of reformation had come.The new order which brought people from different families anticipated sexual immorality . (the lust of the eyes the lust of the flesh). The new order was set up to reduce the possibility of the gathering becoming a meat shopping gathering. And not that it could be a good place to mingle .But that mingling is left for home.
New ceremonial laws as shadows in a parable were coming into view. A shadow, between Christ and his bride the church of the wedding feast, when all will receive their new incorruptible body, consummating the union.As new creatures we are not recognized as male and female Jew nor Gentile
The new traditions were all connected as if it was all one work... ultimately as a representative glory of his veiled glory. The whole picture must be kept in view.
The breaking of bread, and drinking of the blood of grapes, the symbolic use of the hair covering for the woman and hair and uncovering for the man .And Woman being silent as far as counseling with, or teaching men.(all one in the same)
It was that atmosphere which was not known prior to the reformation. Again that God had set up so that when men and woman gathered together so the focus would be on His unseen glory represented by man and woman, the temporal as that seen .
Because of immorality woman are not to council or teach men, vice versa. Something some us older people have more experience in and the older even more.
There was a time when it was almost a shame for a woman to be in the work market with men. Much separation in relationships today is because of it. The cost of things seemed to rise to make it less possible for one income.
Today it an epidemic. The removal of a covenant between two became, no fault just as if there was never a commitment .
Today a marriage is no longer even marriage . It’s whatever you want the word marriage to mean.
It’s the growing problem in the work places today. As a foundry maintenance man for 35 years it was pretty much woman free. As a lead man I had the responsibility to train new employees as I walked them through . A young attractive woman was there for a short while who wanted to learn the trade. When we would go out to look at a machine it was like angel appeared and a aura surrounded her . Things that had to be moved out of the way were done automatically. Where us men would have to beg for the same.
Not that woman is not qualified but in a sence more that she is, more qualified . But she has the higher responsibility in a sense to be pastor of the home. If she has boys she is given the honor to teach them how to listen to woman .If they do not learn they will get an extension of their mother when they marry and she has the job to teach men how to be boys first.
It why the hair covering for the woman as a representative glory, an bride’s veil .Covering her hair, as Moses covered his face.
In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence. For Adam was first formed, then Eve.And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.1Ti 2:15
She is saved from not being able to council with the males at all .
Again ask their husband at home and do not counsel with other men at church, a shame as dishonorable... not honoring her own husband first , as in the fall , or a man dishorioring his wife, if a man is seeking council from a woman ..
1Corinthians 14:35 And if they will learn any thing, let them ask their "husbands" at home: for it is a shame for women to speak in the church.