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The only reason why you are scared is because you have a bad habit of reading into what one is saying.
1. never said woman is not allowed to be a deacon
2. never said a women is not allowed speak in the church because she needs to stand by her man so the man is not tempted?
3. The word of God tells us those who have issues to marry does it not ? 1cor 7:9
The point I'm making is Yes a women can be a deacon, minster, evangelist, and leader. The word Deacon = servant I think you missed that.
"the word deacon = servant that all. many miss some very important truths about the servant, deacon, minster and it is in the word of God ."
Can a women be a servant of God? Yes. can a women be a deacon yes she can. That being said a husband and wife team in the service does help prevent foolishness. I'm minster I have a wife of 27 years, One wife. Unlike many who are on wife two and three. I don't go and visit a married women home without the husband being there that is called respect. OR my wife is with me. There is more than just trusting a person it is called "to void the very appearance of evil" 1thess 5:22 . I have staff many of them women my wife can come to my office anytime and so can thier husbands , we do not take lunches together without my wife.
Your exmple of the running away deacons is missing soe very important facts.
were either of them married ? If they were why was he working so close to another women that was not his wife? And why would i say it is the womans Fault?
"Men who are in leadership should be following god, if they are following God they should not be tempted. "
Your point here is not biblical sir, No one followed God more than Jesus and guess what HE was tempted.
All men will be tempted. The Bible show us we will be tempted the two reason why 1. God is testing you 2. your lust has control over you. many men followed God and were tempted. Joseph is one that comes to mind. David is another.
Maturity is neded. and it is lacking with many.
1. never said woman is not allowed to be a deacon
2. never said a women is not allowed speak in the church because she needs to stand by her man so the man is not tempted?
3. The word of God tells us those who have issues to marry does it not ? 1cor 7:9
The point I'm making is Yes a women can be a deacon, minster, evangelist, and leader. The word Deacon = servant I think you missed that.
"the word deacon = servant that all. many miss some very important truths about the servant, deacon, minster and it is in the word of God ."
Can a women be a servant of God? Yes. can a women be a deacon yes she can. That being said a husband and wife team in the service does help prevent foolishness. I'm minster I have a wife of 27 years, One wife. Unlike many who are on wife two and three. I don't go and visit a married women home without the husband being there that is called respect. OR my wife is with me. There is more than just trusting a person it is called "to void the very appearance of evil" 1thess 5:22 . I have staff many of them women my wife can come to my office anytime and so can thier husbands , we do not take lunches together without my wife.
Your exmple of the running away deacons is missing soe very important facts.
were either of them married ? If they were why was he working so close to another women that was not his wife? And why would i say it is the womans Fault?
"Men who are in leadership should be following god, if they are following God they should not be tempted. "
Your point here is not biblical sir, No one followed God more than Jesus and guess what HE was tempted.
All men will be tempted. The Bible show us we will be tempted the two reason why 1. God is testing you 2. your lust has control over you. many men followed God and were tempted. Joseph is one that comes to mind. David is another.
Maturity is neded. and it is lacking with many.
I am glad you do not believe a woman is forbade to be a deacon. I said I could be incorect. and you proved that I was, thank you.
As for the situation. The pastor lived next to the church, People came to the church building to do things all the time, all times of the day (clean, set up for the next Sunday, do maintenance) The pastor was usually in his office, and ANYONE could come into his office and have conversations. Most likely things happened off campus. not on campus. I am not going to judge, I was young, and do not know the facts. I only know we lost two good deacons (the man who's wife did this, and his brother and his brothers wife both left the church) and the church took years to recover.
This pastor was the first pastor to expose us to Greek. He did not just do 20 minute sermons. but actually did a word by word study of the bible. Everyone was amazed of his power of the word. Most likely this is why people were shocked when it happens. because they felt this man must be very mature in his faith to be able to have that much knowledge, which just proved, knowledge alone does not mean much (Sadly I did not get this until later in life.)