"Putting a spin on things" is the issue.
11Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
12But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
Many will "put a spin on things" when they say Paul was meaning that a woman cannot teach in the pulpit. It is impossible for Paul to mean that since pulpits had not been invented and it would not have entered the mind of Paul, nor the mind of his readers. Therefore cultural context of the time in which it was written (a rule of hermeneutics) rules out "pulpit" interpretation and we must find another solution rather than "putting this spin" on it. We must concede that he did not mean pulpit or we are not being honest.
Reading 1 Peter 3 we have an example where something similar is said about "Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection."
1 Pet 3
1Likewise, ye wives,
be in subjection to your own husbands; that, if any obey not the word, they also may without the word be won by the conversation of the wives;
2While they behold your chaste conversation
coupled with fear.
3Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; 4But
let it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible,
even the ornament of a
meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great price.
5For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
6Even as Sara obeyed Abraham, calling him lord: whose daughters ye are, as long as ye do well, and are not afraid with any amazement
Comparing this with 1 Tim 2 it is impossible for the thinking reader to not notice the striking similarity in content and subject matter and it to dismiss the comparison is difficult for the honest truth seeker. It screams out for attention.
Like big flashing lights 1 Peter 3:3 and 1 Tim 2:9 Scream "WE ARE TALKING ABOUT THE SAME SUBJECT"
1 Tim 2
9In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array; 10But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.
11Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.
12But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.
13For Adam was first formed, then Eve.
14And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.
15Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.
When trying to determine what Paul meant when he wrote 1 Tim 2 concerning women being silent I find it most edifying to others who I discuss it with that ask them to first take a moment and read 1 Peter 3: 1-6 a few times, get them to tell me what that means to them, then Read 1 Tim 2:9-15 and when they do it this exercise it is not uncommon for them to react with an "Oh... I see" before we have even discussed it any further.
I think that he defines the meaning of this Greek word "
hēsychia" the NIV says "quietness" The Interlinear says "quietness" the NAS says "A woman must quietly receive instructions:" The literal meaning of the Greek word is the objective, and I think many have exited the highway of the goal of authorial intent when they contend for the literal meaning of the English word silent.
But Paul defines his intended meaning of the word in the context of his sentence also (another rule of hermeneutics), "
1 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. " The context of the sentence describes and attitude of submission and a receptive spirit therefore the quietness part would be that of not arguing rather than that of her location when she is doing it. There is nothing in these statements that identify the location (assembly or otherwise) and therefore saying that Paul is talking about the assembly is an assumption that cannot be supported by the words or the sentence structure itself. Insisting that he meant assembly is putting a "spin on it"
Paul also defines his meaning of the word "Teach" within the sentence when he says "or to assume authority over a man; she must be quiet." If we continue with the definition of quietness as not arguing with her husband (which is also supported by the context of the entire surrounding verses and our comparison with 1 Pet 3:1-6) we are on much safer ground hermeneutically to define "Teach" as in "correcting her Husband" instead of submitting to his authority, which is quiet a different matter than a female preaching the bible from the pulpit isn't it?
And location is not mentioned so adding "in the assembly" or "behind the pulpit" are both radical insertions into the text that do more than put a spin on it; they are violent attempts to wrest away authorial intent and establish a pharisaical rule concerning women in the assembly that was never even and OT concept. (see Deborah, and Huldah for examples)
As to whether a woman has the gifts to preach and teach that question can only be answered the same way it would be answered in evaluating a man's gifts to preach or teach. You would have to listen to them.
If the woman is preaching and teaching better than most men you have heard, and especially with more skill at expository preaching of the scriptures producing educated saints as a result and if her preaching and teaching is empowered by the Holy Spirit so that people are listening with rapt attention and experience illumination and transformation by the word of God as a result. and if she is doing it better than any man in that church I would give her the pulpit and not let some erroneous interpretation that missed the mark of what Paul was saying cause those people to miss what God wanted to preach or teach through that woman. And I think that I also have the Spirit of God.