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If I understand, we are given the privilege to show mercy to all believing Jews who do not yet know Yeshua came as Messiah. Please let me know if this is understood by you as such.
Jew: "I thought you Christians hated us."
Me: "Some may, but I'm not one of them. You are looking for your Messiah aren't you?
Jew: "Of course."
Me: "Well then, you are my brother because so am I. I'm looking for the same person you are. The only difference between us is that I believe Messiah has already been here once and you have been prevented from knowing that by ha-Shem."
After that it's all down hill. I don't tell him he is lost and on his way to hell if he doesn't accpt Jesus and say the sinners prayer, because that is not true for the Jew who loves our G-d. He is looking for and trusting in his Messiah without even knowing who He is. You don't blame a blind man for his blindness, do you, particularly when G-d put it there? What you do is try to help him see.