Here is your earlier claim:
"5. Husbands would have authority over wives, and wives would need to submit to their own husband. "
Here is what God says in Genesis 3:16: "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”
God said nothing about giving authority to men or requiring submission from women in that verse, so no, that is definitely NOT "exactly" what it says. You are the one contradicting Scripture. What it says is "he (the man) will rule over you". "Will" is not a statement of extended authority at all. It is a statement of certainty. Ungodly men WILL rule over their wives; there is no "must" or "should" in there. Your interpretation merely confirms the truth of God's statement.
Again, in order to be consistent, you must believe that men are disobedient to the Scripture if they are not sweating and in pain when eating or working to earn a living. I'm sure you don't. Maybe you should ask yourself why.
"5. Husbands would have authority over wives, and wives would need to submit to their own husband. "
Here is what God says in Genesis 3:16: "Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”
God said nothing about giving authority to men or requiring submission from women in that verse, so no, that is definitely NOT "exactly" what it says. You are the one contradicting Scripture. What it says is "he (the man) will rule over you". "Will" is not a statement of extended authority at all. It is a statement of certainty. Ungodly men WILL rule over their wives; there is no "must" or "should" in there. Your interpretation merely confirms the truth of God's statement.
Again, in order to be consistent, you must believe that men are disobedient to the Scripture if they are not sweating and in pain when eating or working to earn a living. I'm sure you don't. Maybe you should ask yourself why.
Whether it's intended to be a punishment or a blessing, it's God's revealed world order.
Specifically in Eve's case, she clearly needed a check on her own will, seeing as she was first to be tempted and fall, who then automatically turned temptress. She needed someone in charge, much like a wayward child, and Adam clearly needed to find his own backbone to be able to say "no.. that's wrong!"
And they, being our parents, brought this world order to our doorstep.
As another besides, God also said nothing about women having to hate it. I appreciate my husband, he has told me no twice in the last decade on a matter where I was in disagreement, but I'll be honest there's times I appreciate his ability to watch over me, because God knows I'm not perfect and two heads are better than one.
But there can't be two leaders, someone in the home must get the final say in matters of disagreement. God determined this final say to be had by men.