God hating you before you're born?

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Another example.

And, Iam. I do agree with what Ben said in the first paragraph. Do be careful of what you read on here. After all, he included a post from someone he then claims he didn't know he disagreed with to prove his claim. It really does get confusing, and you are receiving good info and bad info, so please take the important info. Read Romans -- the entire book.

Reading Romans definitely thank you
 
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Proverbs 6:16-19English Standard Version (ESV)


16 There are six things that the Lord hates,
seven that are an abomination to him:
17 haughty eyes, a lying tongue,
and hands that shed innocent blood,
18 a heart that devises wicked plans,
feet that make haste to run to evil,
19 a false witness who breathes out lies,
and one who sows discord among brothers.

These are people bro.
Also, the text clearly says that before they did anything good or bad. So...
Clearly you've got issues......... Bro :eek:
 
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Good. Hopefully the moderators will read through here and also conclude you've lied. Nothing I stated in that post is shameful. What you've done on the other hand is shameful.
Lying doesn't get anyone banned. Reporting someone saying you lied doesn't either.
 

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The sick that need a doctor. The sinner, the unrighteous. The world.
Do the ones about whom is said "close their eyes so that they cannot see" also qualify? Or they do not need a doctor? :)
 

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Clearly you've got issues......... Bro :eek:
Yeah? How so? The Hebrew in the text I cited means literally to hate. Plus, you add to the text by saying it's because Jacob did something. It's just not there. In fact, Paul makes a point of saying the opposite.

10 And not only so, but also when Rebekah had conceived children by one man, our forefather Isaac, 11 though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad—in order that God's purpose of election might continue, not because of works but because of him who calls— 12 she was told, “The older will serve the younger.” 13 As it is written, “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.”

It blows my mind how dishonest people are when handling scripture.
 

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Did God hate the cussing fisherman, or the murderer that was involved in killing Stephen, before they was borne? So many examples in bible of God loving people that didn't seem very loving. but God see's the hearts of those that He chooses.
 
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Quite amazing to me that some believe you are destined for hell no matter what you do,God has chosen you for destruction.I do not believe this. If this is true why evangelize? Why preach? The right people will be saved anyway. No.Whosoever will may come.

I agree...this doctrine that God chooses people to hell on purpose violates the whole "why" of the gospel in the first place and violates the nature and character of our loving Father. God hates everything that destroys those who He loves dearly. God hates the sin that is destroying people and deceiving them but He loves the people themselves.

We have a free will to choose Christ when we hear the message of Him.

Ephesians 1:13 (NASB)
[SUP]13 [/SUP] In Him, you also, after listening to the message of truth, the gospel of your salvation—having also believed, you were sealed in Him with the Holy Spirit of promise,


Here Paul shows that God is the Savior of all men - especially of believers ( Why believers? because they chose to believe on Christ and received the forgiveness of sins - that is the gospel message to people.)

1 Timothy 4:10 (NASB)
[SUP]10 [/SUP] For it is for this we labor and strive, because we have fixed our hope on the living God, who is the Savior of all men, especially of believers.
 
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I wasn't hoodwinked by an open theist, the article isn't dependent upon open theism. I mainly appreciated one point in the article, so you can settle down with this hoodwinked silliness.
And this is why no disagreement with you is ever resolved. You see only what you want to see, and play the passive (victim) while being aggressive (smug, haughty, etc.) to others.

A. How do you know you haven't been hoodwinked by an open theist if you don't even know what an open theist is?

B. You were hoodwinked because you saw absolutely nothing wrong with "universalism" as a defense!

C. Universalism has quite a bit to do with open theism.

And your response to all this is like a pitbull. You clamp down on an ankle, never to remove your teeth until you wear a person down. THEN you claim victory in receiving the final word without ever noticing you simply won't listen to other people's words.

THAT is passive-aggressive.
 
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Yeah? How so? The Hebrew in the text I cited means literally to hate. Plus, you add to the text by saying it's because Jacob did something. It's just not there. In fact, Paul makes a point of saying the opposite.

10 And not only so, but also when Rebekah had conceived children by one man, our forefather Isaac, 11 though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad—in order that God's purpose of election might continue, not because of works but because of him who calls— 12 she was told, “The older will serve the younger.” 13 As it is written, “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.”

It blows my mind how dishonest people are when handling scripture.
Your voice was heard now brother. Calm down, take a deep breath, enrol yourself in a good Hebrew school and then we can study this topic together again.
 

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Yeah? How so? The Hebrew in the text I cited means literally to hate. Plus, you add to the text by saying it's because Jacob did something. It's just not there. In fact, Paul makes a point of saying the opposite.

10 And not only so, but also when Rebekah had conceived children by one man, our forefather Isaac, 11 though they were not yet born and had done nothing either good or bad—in order that God's purpose of election might continue, not because of works but because of him who calls— 12 she was told, “The older will serve the younger.” 13 As it is written, “Jacob I loved, but Esau I hated.”

It blows my mind how dishonest people are when handling scripture.
 
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If you are referring to what I mean by equal ultimacy, it simply means God doesn't force us to sin and rebel. We aren't puppets. He does choose to not save some, but he is not active in our rebellion. That's all us. In fact, I would argue that he actively restrains the evil of men through his common grace, thus preventing us from being more evil than we otherwise would be.
Oh, okay! That I get. (Total depravity, not Utter depravity.) :)
 
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I will give you this. Your church, (RCC), teaches following their guidelines gets you to heaven. They are wrong. No, you cannot be saved by going to church, confession, communion, confirmation, and last rites. And the RCC doesn't teach "repent." It teaches "penance." It's something different than repent.



John 6:37 All that the Father gives me will come to me, and whoever comes to me I will never cast out.
Starting to learn this, as I actually suffer from guilt and scruples and self-loathing I have to say it is true about Catholicism even when they teach mercy.

I also have to say that by the love of the Lord, I've been here for only 3 days and you are making me doubt already lolololol. :cool:
 

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And this is why no disagreement with you is ever resolved. You see only what you want to see, and play the passive (victim) while being aggressive (smug, haughty, etc.) to others.

A. How do you know you haven't been hoodwinked by an open theist if you don't even know what an open theist is?

B. You were hoodwinked because you saw absolutely nothing wrong with "universalism" as a defense!

C. Universalism has quite a bit to do with open theism.

And your response to all this is like a pitbull. You clamp down on an ankle, never to remove your teeth until you wear a person down. THEN you claim victory in receiving the final word without ever noticing you simply won't listen to other people's words.

THAT is passive-aggressive.
You really do have a bone to pick don't you? I did some research, but still not enough to be able to define terms. What is your problem? You seem exceptionally aggressive, forget passive, this morning.
 

trofimus

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kaylagirl said:
Quite amazing to me that some believe you are destined for hell no matter what you do,God has chosen you for destruction.I do not believe this. If this is true why evangelize? Why preach? The right people will be saved anyway. No.Whosoever will may come.


I agree...this doctrine that God chooses people to hell on purpose violates...
You know what, its good to actually listen to the opponent what he is saying.

Nobody says that you will go to hell no matter what you do or that you will go to heaven, no matter what you do. Our work is need for the hell and for the heaven too.

Bible, the first church, Augustin, protestantism and most of Calvinists will tell you that, people going to hell are righteously condemned because of their evil deeds and that people going to heaven must have faith that produces good works.

So why are you still fighting against something that nobody claims?
 
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If some people don't agree with someone else's viewpoint - that gives them in their own mind "the Christian right" to attack those people that have a different view then you do. I'd just ignore them and discuss things with people that are not abusive and insulting. That way we can learn from each other in a proper atmosphere.
In which case, shouldn't you be ignoring Ben? I watched that fight start from Ben.
 

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In which case, shouldn't you be ignoring Ben? I watched that fight start from Ben.
Why are you stirring up trouble? The "fight" already ended, get over it and move on.
 
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Precisely, this is the context but people are trying to extrapolate the verse out of its context which then leads to what the OP is experiencing. Fear and condemnation.
If you go back to Romans 1 and read it all the way through, you couldn't possibly make those claims! You're the one pulling out of context.
 
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You know what, its good to actually listen to the opponent what he is saying.

Nobody says that you will go to hell no matter what you do or that you will go to heaven, no matter what you do. Our work is need for the hell and for the heaven too.

Bible, the first church, Augustin, protestantism and most of Calvinists will tell you, that people going to hell are righteously condemned and that people going to heaven must have faith that produces good works.

So why are you still fighting against something that nobody claims?
People are not fighting against the fact that there is a place for those that reject Christ. What they are fighting against is the notion that God chooses those people on purpose to be rejecting Him.

It is anti-the gospel and really violates the whole "why" of the gospel in the first place and violates the nature and character of God.

God doesn't arbitrarily choose some for hell and some for heaven - they chose that themselves. Salvation is open for all. God so loved the world - that He gave.

The gospel is simple. He loved, He gave, we believed, we live.

People are free to believe whatever they want but this false doctrine of God sends you to hell on purpose because He didn't choose you beforehand is not the gospel.
 
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I am going to start with an assumption.
To not be in communion with God is sin.
Sin is an action that brings death, and to be out of fellowship with God is death.
We are born in this state.

It is possible to assume a state of mind and being that rejects God and just holds
on to whatever you have got, without any particular care or desire to value it.

Esau appears to not be that bothered to be the first born or to fight for things.
Though Jacob was always looking to promote his position, he understood the idea
of desire and using what he had.

Now God already declares what He loves and desires, so those who will never walk
in His ways are dooming themselves to destruction. The emnity starts before the
beginning to time to the end, and some will never change their path.

Now you could say everyone freely chooses and equally they have chosen not to
shift. What I have become very aware of people who go to church, know all the
theology can still miss the message completely.