How can Christians overcome being called bigots?

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LOL...the "heretic Smurf Hunter"...good one!..one could call you a "hyper-smurfer"

More than sometimes, my Lady. Almost always.

Case in point: I call you Blue because deep down inside, I'm a Smurfist. ;)
 

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More than sometimes, my Lady. Almost always.

Case in point: I call you Blue because deep down inside, I'm a Smurfist. ;)

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Are you asking where the love is? I found your response to what I said... sort of random. lol Are you against such evangelism techniques, is that what you're saying? I agree that compassion should be involved when preaching the Gospel, many of the great works Jesus did were directly related to His compassion for the individual. That is another topic entirely, to not persuade people with complex arguments and good articulation but by the power of God.
The OP was about being called a bigot. A little further down the back story showed up where the one being called a bigot was being "neighborly" by preaching the gospel to a neighbor, but the neighbor took great offense and then hassled big time.

I know some of my neighbors, but not all of them. No way in the world am I ever getting in that position because I don't share the gospel to strangers, unless something happens to open the way for that. (That seldom happens.) I share with people who get to know me and trust me enough to share.

And yet, reread this thread from the beginning for everyone's reaction. 90% is all about how justified we are to not be called bigots. How the world is out to get us. How much we suffer for the cause, when all along the cause has become nothing but a sales pitch to strangers.

All I'm asking is for people to try out the shoes of the neighbor before becoming self-righteous about distributing a sales pitch.

The main reason we are being called bigots (if we ever are called bigots) is because we're preaching at without the whole "love our neighbors as ourselves" approach is even started.

The exact same thing happened here. So few ever found out the back story because so many are reading the first post and then telling how to do it right -- aka "my way." Preached at.
 
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Even if you're sweet people can become furious when you share the Word. My mother is really kind, but my granddad was 96 and had to hear how to get saved. Jesus loves you sweetie wasn't working. It was like a lion's den she said, but it doesn't matter how people respond, we just kept praying and he did get saved in the end.
 
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You are defending a person becoming so abusive they physically assaulted another. Your first question makes no sense. I remember once when I was young and a non believer, when a couple of JWs came to my door, I invited them in because it was snowing out and they did not have overcoats on, just their suits. I made tea and we talked about religion and all that jazz, but I was having none of it. I did not physically assault them nor did I conspire to have my neighbors call them up to shame and abuse them for their views. Recently when I was at my daughter's place, the LDS came a knocking. I spoke at length with them, told them I was a born again Christian, and they even established telephone contact with me. I eventually told them I was not interested in their theology, and asked them to stop calling at my daughter's house. At no time did I physically assault them, no, nor did I hold them hostage on the phone and spew toxic rhetoric at them because we disagreed about certain things.
Is what you did the same thing Chuck did?

You know what's missing?
A. We weren't told what lead up to that point.
B. Too many assume the lady was nuts, (even possessed came up), without knowing what happened up to that point.

My first question didn't make sense because you immediately assumed things that cannot be assumed! Everyone has morals, even the most wicked, and yet we are all assuming here which morals are right based on the last half of a story.
 
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I respect your eagerness to perhaps be a peacemaker, and for that you are a better man than I am.

However, my motto in life is simple:

"With respect to all but apologies to no one, I proclaim the saving grace of Jesus Christ alone."

When folks call me a narrow-minded, archaic bigot for that, I wear it as a badge of honor.
 
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I believe in the Bible and I believe the teachings of Christ but I am really beginning to dislike Christians. Anyone who disagrees with them on any given subject is obviously a heretic and should be burned at the stake
What goes around, comes around.
 
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I believe in the Bible and I believe the teachings of Christ but I am really beginning to dislike Christians. Anyone who disagrees with them on any given subject is obviously a heretic and should be burned at the stake
I've looked at this post a few times,
and tho I don't like it, and it seems like a contradiction,
I think, that is I THINK it is his attempt at sarcasm,
and he's not saying that anyone should be burned,
but he's accusing some christians of having an attitude
that if anyone disagrees with them,
THEY (the disagree-ers) should be burned (by said christians).

Hey, he's pretty much wrong either way, tho. Lol.
I just thought I'd toss my 2 cents in.
Normally, Dude, I would have been crushing it...

Utah's my buddy, and I love magenta, and I AM
with them on their replies, but today, I'm
kinda walkin' on a cloud of love with Jesus...
(what's that song? I'm walkin' on sunshine?
Well, I'm walkin' on SONshine!)

(props to Sonflower for that thought)
(what a cool christian chick nickname! )
(Are we still allowed to say that? :p )

So, anyway, I'm not feeling confrontational.♡.
(check with me later, lol) ;)
 
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All I'm asking is for people to try out the shoes of the neighbor before becoming self-righteous about distributing a sales pitch.
I put myself in the neighbor's shoes and I still don't see the need for the magnitude of her reaction. How many of us would start throwing things, attack the person over the phone, and get our friends to attack the person on the phone? I've had more than one person (who just met me) share a false faith with me with good intent without the situation escalating on my part. I could see someone being a little ticked off (and even that I wouldn't be, but somebody might), but in an uncontrolled rage...that's a little much.

There really is something about the Gospel that has the potential to set something off in people like nothing else.

I went over my neighbor's house because I wanted to give my neighbor the gospel and once she heard the word "repent" she started throwing stuff at me which hit me, calling her friends to make me feel ashamed, having them call me to make me feel ashamed, and she went on the warpath attacking me on the phone for a long time.
 
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How do you deal with multiple people calling someone who witnesses a bigot for saying that Christianity is the right way?

In other words, if you say that Christianity is the right way and there is no other way, there are people who want to call Christians bigots for that.
Jesus Christ was God in flesh. His ministry, it seems to me, was to convince us to love the Lord our God with all our hearts, minds, and souls, and love out neighbors as ourselves.

Perhaps some people believe that if they obey these two commandments, they are on the right track, whether they are Christians or not. In other words, you and I know Jesus Christ was God in flesh, but maybe Jews don't know that. Even so, if they do exactly what Jesus taught us to do, are we any better than they?
 
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All I'm asking is for people to try out the shoes of the neighbor before becoming self-righteous about distributing a sales pitch.
I put myself in the neighbor's shoes and I still don't see the need for the magnitude of her reaction. How many of us would start throwing things.
Will you ppl please stop wearing each others shoes...
It's getting very confusing,
(and hard to keep track of you, lol)
Besides, don't these posts belong
In the 'What guys want' thread?

Btw, you can wear my shoes anytime,
I won't throw anything at you.

I'm still voting for barefootin', though. ;)
 
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Yeah, brother!
Sonshine.
We need a remake of this...is Katrina still available, lol?
[video=youtube;iPUmE-tne5U]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPUmE-tne5U&feature=youtube_gdata_player[/video]
 
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Yeah, brother!
Sonshine.
We need a remake of this...is Katrina still available, lol?
[video=youtube;iPUmE-tne5U]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iPUmE-tne5U&feature=youtube_gdata_player[/video]
I used to listen to this song non-stop a few months ago! :D
 
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Jesus Christ was God in flesh. His ministry, it seems to me, was to convince us to love the Lord our God with all our hearts, minds, and souls, and love out neighbors as ourselves.

Perhaps some people believe that if they obey these two commandments, they are on the right track, whether they are Christians or not. In other words, you and I know Jesus Christ was God in flesh, but maybe Jews don't know that. Even so, if they do exactly what Jesus taught us to do, are we any better than they?
When making a decision about right and wrong, I can ask, "What is right?" and "What is best?"
I sometimes have to make decisions and there are no "right" answers.

Jesus made a lot of claims in John12:44. Believing in Him was believing in God, to see Him was seeing God, came as the light of the world, those who believe don't abide in darkness, came to save the world, those who don't believe will be judged, claimed His teaching didn't originate with Him and His words are life everlasting.

So when we judge Jesus then we're really judging ourselves because:

Jesus said,"He who rejects Me, and does not receive My sayings, has one who judges him: this word I spoke is what will judge him at the last day" (John 12:48)
 
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When making a decision about right and wrong, I can ask, "What is right?" and "What is best?"
I sometimes have to make decisions and there are no "right" answers.

Jesus made a lot of claims in John12:44. Believing in Him was believing in God, to see Him was seeing God, came as the light of the world, those who believe don't abide in darkness, came to save the world, those who don't believe will be judged, claimed His teaching didn't originate with Him and His words are life everlasting.

So when we judge Jesus then we're really judging ourselves because:

Jesus said,"He who rejects Me, and does not receive My sayings, has one who judges him: this word I spoke is what will judge him at the last day" (John 12:48)
Jesus is God in flesh. If someone loves God with all their hearts, minds, and souls, haven't they accepted Jesus, even if they don't know it?