Personal experiences or feelings cannot assure us of salvation. The God of the Bible is not a god of confusion. If God assures us through personal experiences or feelings your story or any other story would be of little help to others. Do you have any verses to share about this issue?
What happened to Paul on the road to Damascus was not to assure him that he was saved but to prepare him for service.
So are you saying what happen to Paul on the road to Damascus had no effect on His life? Are you saying God does not reveal Himself to us? Are you saying salvation is not an "EVENT" in our lives, and/or that it doesn't COMPLETELY change us? I am not sure exactly what you're arguing with here, but if you are saying any of that I GREATLY disagree with you. The following scriptures all match my understanding of my salvation and GREATLY assure ME I am saved, I'm honestly not to worried if they assure anyone else of MY salvation.
John 3:3
Jesus answered and said to him, "Truly, truly, I say to you, unless one is born again he cannot see the kingdom of God."
2 Corinthians 5:17
Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature; the old things passed away; behold, new things have come.
John 3:6
"That which is born of the flesh is flesh, and that which is born of the Spirit is spirit.
Romans 6:4
Therefore we have been buried with Him through baptism into death, so that as Christ was raised from the dead through the glory of the Father, so we too might walk in newness of life.
Galatians 2:20
I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.
Ezekiel 11:19-20
And I will give them one heart, and a new spirit I will put within them. I will remove the heart of stone from their flesh and give them a heart of flesh, that they may walk in my statutes and keep my rules and obey them. And they shall be my people, and I will be their God.
Ephesians 4:22-24
To put off your old self, which belongs to your former manner of life and is corrupt through deceitful desires, and to be renewed in the spirit of your minds, and to put on the new self, created after the likeness of God in true righteousness and holiness.
Isaiah 64:8
But now, O Lord, you are our Father; we are the clay, and you are our potter; we are all the work of your hand.
As far as my experience helping others here using my "personal experience" here are a few verses on that-
2 Timothy 1:8-12
Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony about our Lord, nor of me his prisoner, but share in suffering for the gospel by the power of God, who saved us and called us to a holy calling, not because of our works but because of his own purpose and grace, which he gave us in Christ Jesus before the ages began, and which now has been manifested through the appearing of our Savior Christ Jesus, who abolished death and brought life and immortality to light through the gospel, for which I was appointed a preacher and apostle and teacher, which is why I suffer as I do. But I am not ashamed, for I know whom I have believed, and I am convinced that he is able to guard until that Day what has been entrusted to me.
Psalm 71:15-18
My mouth will tell of your righteous acts, of your deeds of salvation all the day, for their number is past my knowledge. With the mighty deeds of the Lord God I will come; I will remind them of your righteousness, yours alone. O God, from my youth you have taught me, and I still proclaim your wondrous deeds. So even to old age and gray hairs, O God, do not forsake me, until I proclaim your might to another generation, your power to all those to come.
Revelation 12:11
And they have conquered him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, for they loved not their lives even unto death.
Psalm 66:16
Come and hear, all you who fear God, and I will tell what he has done for my soul.
Matthew 5:16
In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven
So exactly what is your problem with me testifying how God has SAVED me and worked in my life? Even more than that who in the world are you to presume to tell ANYONE about the assurance God has given them? We are called to lift His name always, and all we are armed with is our testimony, if my words make you feel convicted then it may be a good idea to examine yourself more closely. I have to admit I was kind of baffled by your attack on my position, I'm not sure how anyone that has felt the power of God and been made new could disagree honestly. Can you provide any scripture that says what I wrote is wrong, or did you just not like it?