As far as God having a wife,she would have to be a God too,but God said He is the only God,and there is no God beside Him,and there was no God formed before Him,and there shall be no God formed after Him.
Jesus said there is no gender in heaven with people and the angels,for the only thing that separates a man and a woman is the flesh,the spirit,and soul,are the same,and they put off the flesh,and have a spiritual body.That is why all the angels have male names for they are greater than people.God is a Spirit and is known by a male name for He is greater than people,but there is no opposite sex of Him.It would appear that God does not have a gender,but has a male name to show His authority.
[SUP]14 [/SUP]Blotting out the handwriting of ordinances that was against us, which was contrary to us, and took it out of the way, nailing it to his cross;
[SUP]15 [/SUP]And having spoiled principalities and powers, he made a shew of them openly, triumphing over them in it.
[SUP]16 [/SUP]Let no man therefore judge you in meat, or in drink, or in respect of an holyday, or of the new moon, or of the sabbath days:
[SUP]17 [/SUP]Which are a shadow of things to come; but the body is of Christ(Colossians 2:14-17).
In the New Testament we do not go by the physical ordinances of Israel,because they have no bearing on us spiritual,but they had to do them in the Old Testament to be right with God.Since they could not have the Spirit in the Old Testament to be able to keep the moral laws of God perfectly,God had them do physical ordinances to keep right with Him that was possible to keep.
In the New Testament we can have the Spirit and can keep the moral laws,laws of love,by being led of the Spirit,and have no need for the physical ordinances of Israel.
When Jesus was on earth,the physical ordinances were still in effect.