You also have a choice to not be manipulative in your speech
If you been here long enough, you'll find that the bold above is a common line of defence to try and coerce someone into believing/submitting to what they have to say. Just try and think about the person on the receiving end of such a comment, and what it could possibly make them feel/think...to the weak it would be something like, "Gee, I better listen because I don't want to disregard verse nor disbelieve them." Or something like that.
It's not very nice I don't think.
If you been here long enough, you'll find that the bold above is a common line of defence to try and coerce someone into believing/submitting to what they have to say. Just try and think about the person on the receiving end of such a comment, and what it could possibly make them feel/think...to the weak it would be something like, "Gee, I better listen because I don't want to disregard verse nor disbelieve them." Or something like that.
It's not very nice I don't think.