Words require definition. Fundamentalists as defined in this website does not mean hate.
I am a fundamentalist, by the definitions of this website, by the definitions of the articles that initially coined the term in the 1800s and by self-description.
My wife, who calls herself a Roman Catholic, is also a fundamentalist by the same definitions. Granted, she is a inconsistent, as she believes in all the Reformation Solas and has no belief in Papal infallibility, the bodily assumption or immaculate conception of Mary and many other things, but, being a woman, self-consistency is not of much interest to her.
As to myself, I practice infant baptism as do many fundamentalist Presbyterians (check out PCA and OPC denominations).
Now, it is true that because of the emotional baggage associated with the word "fundamentalist" a lot of fundamentalists do not like the term. Personally I refuse to let the world redefine a well-defined word by a consistent smear campaign. The word "evangelical" which many prefer or even "born again" is not good enough. There is no question that a man like CS Lewis or Grecham Machem were "born again" but they both believed Darwinian pseudo-science. Evangelical is an even worse term, today having almost no meaning left.
I am a fundamentalist, and I do not hate the Roman "catholic" Church which I still consider a Christian institution. However, like any institution, the Romanist is full of non-Christians. I dare say less than half of any people in any denomination are actually Christian. Rome, as messed up as it is, is in better shape than most Presbyterians (check out the abomination that is the PC-USA). Will that continue under the current "pope" Francis? I don't know, the man is so far worse than the previous 2 "popes" he may just destroy what is left of this Christian Church.
Irish St. Malachy predicted Pope Francis will be last pope - IrishCentral.com
Whatever one thinks of Malachy and eschatology, I find it fascinating to watch current Romanists who do believe in the Malacy prophecy, most of whom are very conservative, as "pope" Francis tries to swerve the Roman Church into liberalism.
JR