Oh son, I do believe it's the other way around.
Unrepentant sinner's in the churches, who are still involved with the things of the world, and carnal attitudes like you and many others have displayed here, are the main reason why "Christianity" has a bad name in America today. You are not "Christian" according to Jesus' definition. Period. (And I don't count myself as 'Christian" yet either, before you get your panties in a bunch.)
To be called by that Name, and be found "worthy" of Him, as Jesus said, we must deny ourselves, pick up our cross daily, and follow Him."
Those who truly follow Him, would not speak as you do. Period. So, yes, I name YOU as one of the unrepentant ones. For the fruit of your life proves that. And God has called His Elect to judge those "in the churches."
"in a great house there are not only vessels of gold and silver, but also of wood and clay, some for honor and some for dishonor. 21 Therefore if anyone cleanses himself from the latter, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified and useful for the Master, prepared for every good work. 22 Flee also youthful lusts; but pursue righteousness, faith, love, peace with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 23 But avoid foolish and ignorant disputes, knowing that they generate strife. 24 And a servant of the Lord must not quarrel but be gentle to all, able to teach, patient, 25 in humility correcting those who are in opposition, if God perhaps will grant them repentance, so that they may know the truth, 26 and that they may come to their senses and escape the snare of the devil, having been taken captive by him to do his will." - 2Tim 2:20-26
May you come to your senses, and purge yourself, for your attitude proves whom you serve.