The discussion appears to be simple. Should we obey Jesus's commands as disciples?
The answer is yes, He commanded us to. It is sin to disobey Jesus.
If you disobey Jesus you are in sin. It was this very obedience that the apostles said confirmed their salvation and reality.
Paul described this as being free from sin and a slave to righteousness.
It is impossible to love unless God has placed that love in your heart.
So without being born again, you cannot obey Jesus. You cannot be born again without believing in Him.
So the question then comes why are people saying you do not have to obey, sinning, and still claiming they are born again?
Because love has not yet taken hold in their hearts. If it had they would not speak like this, because their hearts would have confirmed the very reality I am speaking.
Love is pre-eminent. I am just sharing scripture and what it teaches and what my heart testifies to.
Too many times I have heard people preach other gospels so I know this is the real thing because this is what the apostles preached and experienced.
A common missreading -
Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
Matt 7:7
This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.
1 John 5:14
Salvation is for a purpose, that purpose is to purchase a people who will walk in righteousness and not sin.
Many deny this reality, and want to justify the lack of focus and constant failure, rather than ask the deeper question, do I really love from the heart?