Mr. Studier yesterday told us that there are a whole bunch of requirements for believers who want to "upgrade" their [covenantal] status from mere "servant" to "friend". And while this may have been true under the Old Covenant, it appears God has graciously and sovereignly simplified the process in the eternal, unilateral conditions of the New Covenant. Ps 25:14 reads:
Ps 25:14
14 The friendship of the Lord is for those who fear him,
and he makes known to them his covenant.
ESV
The AMP provides additional nuance:
Ps 25:14
14 The secret [of the sweet, satisfying companionship] of the Lord have they who fear (revere and worship) Him, and He will show them His covenant and reveal to them its [deep, inner] meaning. [John 7:17; 15:15.]
AMP
The idea behind these texts is one of a close, intimate, personal relationship with the Lord that is had by those who fear Him, and due to this [covenant] relationship, God makes known to God-fearers his covenant and its deep, inner, spiritual, eternal meaning. People trust and confide in friends here in the real world, and so it is in the spiritual realm! God confides in or reveals secrets to his friends, i.e. God-fearers!
Then when we study the New Covenant, we learn that the Fear of the Lord is a disposition of heart that God sovereignly and efficaciously puts into the hearts of his NC people!
Jer 32:40-41
40 I will make with them an everlasting covenant, that I will not turn away from doing good to them. And I will put the fear of me in their hearts, that they may not turn from me. 41 I will rejoice in doing them good, and I will plant them in this land in faithfulness, with all my heart and all my soul.
ESV
This is spoken to the apostate, Old Covenant people of God who would soon be carried off to Babylon for their many sins -- sins that caused them to depart or turn away from the Lord. So, God's remedy for their apostasy would take place in the future at some point after they have returned to their Land. Of course, the "everlasting covenant" God will make is the eternal New Covenant spoken of earlier in Jer 31:31ff. Given the unilateral nature of this "everlasting covenant", how can anyone say with a straight face that this gracious, spiritual remedy is not efficacious? Where are the conditions for the recipients of this promise stipulated?
Therefore, since this unilateral promise extends to ALL of God's chosen NC people (given that the NT redefines who are the true sons and daughters of Abraham), then I have to think that God has a lot more "friends" in this NC economy than most Christians realize -- and certainly far more friends than He ever had under the bilateral OC dispensation.
Okay, FWs....turn the above passage on its head and explain how the unilateral promise made therein is not and cannot be efficaciously applied to the elect's hearts.