He was only partly right ... has it occurred to you how much if he was wrong (which he was mostly) how he has maligned the nature of God.
There is no way around the fact that if God selects those He wants leaving others no choice...then he is a morally ambiguous God.
And Calvin as clever as he was did not follow his own dogma to is moral logical conclusion......
which is not good.
As well you you are listening to a man whose lens was completely shaped by St Augustine and Augustine did not get much right either having been influenced by the Roman church which definitely did not get much right.
I think Calvin took Augustine too far. The results of Calvin and his teaching is clear during the Geneva theocracy.
That being said I disagree with Arminius as well.
This is how I understand it to be, and it's fine if anyone wants to disagree, I'm no authority.
I believe the grace of God is for every person, and the great commission plays a role in his grace. That faith comes by hearing God's word. Because the Spirit of God inhabits his word, when a man hears it, the Spirit convicts of the truth, and gives power to believe. The hearer is either compelled by the truth or musters from his flesh the strength to reject. That the will of the man either gives way or hardens. But if that will gives way it is not an act of the will but an act against the will because the conviction of the Holy Spirit.
I compare it to meeking a horse. On day the horse is out in the fields running wild. Then the horse is run into a coral, that horse continues to run inside that corral, round and round the perimeter. The trainer will step in and redirect that horse until it finally gives both eyes and ears to him, and then he stops the pressure and stands still. Invariably that horse will stop running and face the man in the center. This back and forth will continue until eventually the train will have a saddle on the horse and will be riding him round and round in that corral the end result is that horse becomes a beloved friend to the rider.
I know for those that know nothing of training horses this probably makes little sense. But I see the whole process as a picture of our salvation and our maturation or sanctification.
When the training is done you can walk into the pasture with a saddle and bridle and the horse will walk right up to you and stand for you to put a bit in his mouth, and the saddle on his back.
I had a horse one time that I could stand shoulder to shoulder with him, if I walked forward he walked forward, if I walked backward he walked backward, if I stepped left or right he did also. We call it hooked on in horse training speak.