The theory is that at the same moment as when a man trusts Christ as Savior, at that moment He receives eternal life. A man cannot believe without having eternal life; and a man cannot have eternal life without believing! So the question is not which came first in time, but in logic.
You don't find scripture telling anyone to sit around and wait for God to regenerate him that He might believe; you find "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ, & you shall be saved."
IMHO, as I posted, election is taught in the Bible & our God is indeed sovereign; but election is basically His business rather than ours.
One illustration I heard years ago, I believe has some validity. A man may come to the salvation door & read: "Whosoever believes," Believe & be saved. So then the man believes & walks through the door, but as he looks behind there is a sign posted that says,
"You are elect; you have been chosen."
Well put Atwood. I read God's word a a saying those in Christ are the elect:
"According as he hath chosen us
in him before the foundation of the world..." Eph.1:4
He didn't choose us (individuals). He chose us (who believe)
in Christ.
"In whom
ye also
trusted, after that
ye heard..."
Eph.1:13
"So then faith cometh by hearing, and hearing by the word of God." Ro.10:17
God first does the work of changing our hearts through circumstance:
"Woe unto thee, Chorazin! woe unto thee, Bethsaida!
for if the mighty works had been done in Tyre and Sidon, which have been done in you,
they had a great while ago repented..."Lk.10:13
So in your illustration of the signs on the door, both are true.
Think about this...how did God harden Pharaoh's heart?