I disagree with anything that limits the words of scripture. We agree on everything but that. We agree that love should lead and everything must be checked with that. We agree that the spirit should lead. We agree on some of the things the law is made for.
I think all people, especially the babies in Christ, should be open to ALL scripture. When I studied law I used the concordance for a list of every scripture in the bible that had the word law in it, printed it all out, and studied every single one, knew each scripture was of God and explained law. This is the mind set I think is necessary in regard to law. That includes what you say it is, but it also includes many things that you are not telling us about.
You are a mature Christian, I would bet that there are years of study and prayer behind your growth. When you say "love your neighbor" you have in your mind and heart every law that explains that, it is second nature to you. Many in the church do not. When you tell them not to listen, just to love, they need to have in their mind what you put in long ago.
Our churches are even accepting lesbian women leaders, as an extreme example of the lowering of moral standards accepted. We need to help!!!