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You have a good balance in your understanding but these others will not hear what you are saying as a woman who has good conviction. There are those on this site that believe that they have an understanding from the Holy Spirit and anything you say contrary to that understanding is contrary to the word or they will accuse you of not reading or understanding their posts. They are very subjective individuals that are easily offended and they often retaliate with belittling comments to make you feel ignorant of foolish with what you have been given by God. There are only a few on this site that are like that but they are consistent and they have a mutual admiration for one another that is very noticeable. So don't let these few individuals bother you, just walk in the light you have been given and hope that others will walk in the same light that glorifies God in the truth. You are a good champion of the faith in this area of truth and stay steadfast.
Yes I think if their understanding truly were inspired of the Holy Spirit, it would match up with the Word - not go against it - because He IS the Word and cannot deny Himself or His own Word.