Roger why be arrogant to people? "Whatever". Sure, have a difference of opinion, but don't be rude just for the sake of being rude?
So Roger, you are saying that I and other people can't and don't speak in tongues? Even when and though they do. You are still denying it and saying that it's a "familiar spirit"?
And by "familiar spirit" you mean; A familiar spirit is a demon that is summoned by a medium, with the intention that the spirit summoned will obey his or her commands. Often, familiar spirits are believed to be the spirits of people who have died (Duet. 18:11). Yes?
Roger dear brother, God HAS given me this gift. I am the OP and my testimonial to you is true. I told you how I came to speak in tongues. I told you that I was not able to do it before. I used to try but simply could not do it! It was only when I was prayed over and had the Holy Spirit bless me with it was I able to do it. Within that moment I literally burst out tears of joy speaking incomprehensible words I couldn't understand but was still able to say! I remember the experience very clearly even though it was many years ago in my early teens. This took place in a happy and loving Christian home.
I was not able to do so before this experience, as hard as I tried I just could not do it. It was only when the gift was given to me I was able to do it. It was a turning point in my life and it really helped me to grow up and turn into a man. Such a gift. It was what I needed to help me become more mature and confident in Christ.
I know you like to quote I Cor 13 and say that the gift of tongues is no longer given to men. But that is not exactly what that says. It is saying that love will always conquer and that includes you too.
Say what you will. It's a beautiful amazing thing. It brings praise and glory to God. It strengthens and encourages the believer. It brings peace and wellbeing to the soul. It makes God happy and it makes the person doing it happy. Why would you want to say anything other than that about it?