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"Non-feminist woman = Gift from God."
A non-feminist woman is not a gift from God. Life and free will are gifts from God. A woman may choose what to do with them as per the choices God gave her out of love.
A woman is only a gift from God if her man was a true man of God who leads a good life. Only a good man deserves a good woman.
A feminist woman tries to cheat to gain good living without being good herself as she doesn't obey God's commandments. As such, she can only get what she steals from other people who are better than her and have more of God's goods than her. Her heart is devoid of God's love for she loves the world of Satan that fades away instead of loving the eternal Kingdom of Heaven, preferring to live by thievery, intimidation, and anger instead of through God's grace. She cannot perceive what comes from faith in God and the Holy Spirit due to a hardened heart blackened with unrepented sins.
"Feminist woman = Worthless scum."
Even a non-feminist would be offended by what you said because good people lead holy lives. They don't behave like unsaved people who use bad language and make negative remarks about others as that does not affirm their love for everyone God created. The whole point of being a saved Christian is to behave better than others. If you let that point away, you're no better than unsaved people and obviously do not have faith in God nor follow Jesus Christ. As such, you'll end up in Hell!
Do not spill your dirty laundry over the Internet. It is not what a Christian who loves his people would do. A true Christian shares only gospel, that is good news and inspirational stories that demonstrate the power of the Lord!
Godspeed.
A non-feminist woman is not a gift from God. Life and free will are gifts from God. A woman may choose what to do with them as per the choices God gave her out of love.
A woman is only a gift from God if her man was a true man of God who leads a good life. Only a good man deserves a good woman.
A feminist woman tries to cheat to gain good living without being good herself as she doesn't obey God's commandments. As such, she can only get what she steals from other people who are better than her and have more of God's goods than her. Her heart is devoid of God's love for she loves the world of Satan that fades away instead of loving the eternal Kingdom of Heaven, preferring to live by thievery, intimidation, and anger instead of through God's grace. She cannot perceive what comes from faith in God and the Holy Spirit due to a hardened heart blackened with unrepented sins.
"Feminist woman = Worthless scum."
Even a non-feminist would be offended by what you said because good people lead holy lives. They don't behave like unsaved people who use bad language and make negative remarks about others as that does not affirm their love for everyone God created. The whole point of being a saved Christian is to behave better than others. If you let that point away, you're no better than unsaved people and obviously do not have faith in God nor follow Jesus Christ. As such, you'll end up in Hell!
Do not spill your dirty laundry over the Internet. It is not what a Christian who loves his people would do. A true Christian shares only gospel, that is good news and inspirational stories that demonstrate the power of the Lord!
Godspeed.
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That's not true at all. I've been with many attractive women (some were even taller than me and had very thin model bodies with hipbones sticking out). They are just like all other people. It is not nice to discriminate against them. They are equal to everyone God created. Just be a man of God with them who follows Jesus Christ's commandments. If a woman was a non-believer or false-believer on the other hand who intentionally sins and misbehaves without remorse, then leave her if not married to her already or otherwise pray to God and make sure to behave impeccably yourself to be blessed by God.
Anyways, I don't believe you have been with a woman before.
Anyways, I don't believe you have been with a woman before.
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Not one piece of Godly advice here, let alone anything helpful. Don't quit your day job, counseling isn't for you.
All women aren't anymore susceptible to feminism than all men are susceptible to chauvinism. Nothing like making judgement calls and blanket statements. smh
Well, you certainly showed her who's boss. My husband would do whatever I needed to be done, because he cares about me. If I was unable to go buy my needs or missed something he would get it for me. That's what a good, caring, loving husband does. By the advice you give I'd expect you to either be single or newly married. 30 yrs and you're still no more mature than this? Grow up man, and buy the woman some dang tampons if she needs them. I promise, it won't make you gay. smh
All women aren't anymore susceptible to feminism than all men are susceptible to chauvinism. Nothing like making judgement calls and blanket statements. smh
Well, you certainly showed her who's boss. My husband would do whatever I needed to be done, because he cares about me. If I was unable to go buy my needs or missed something he would get it for me. That's what a good, caring, loving husband does. By the advice you give I'd expect you to either be single or newly married. 30 yrs and you're still no more mature than this? Grow up man, and buy the woman some dang tampons if she needs them. I promise, it won't make you gay. smh
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That doesn't make it better. You still broke her trust in one of the most intimate areas possible.
And You brought up this subject and asked for help. I responded with the information You provided. So getting all self righteous and accusing me of judging or shoving things in your face when these are, after all, Your Actions that You Confessed to, won't get you anywhere.
And You brought up this subject and asked for help. I responded with the information You provided. So getting all self righteous and accusing me of judging or shoving things in your face when these are, after all, Your Actions that You Confessed to, won't get you anywhere.
One lesson I've learned is never do anything with any expectation. As a person that has a natural desire to see my deeds appreciated, I can tell you it doesn't always go that way, even from people you feel it should. The less you expect when you do things for others, the easier it is to do them. That is self sacrifice. Giving without expecting Anything in return.
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I wonder if we have TWO trolls on here, and they're working in tandem to get the rest of us at each other's throats (including the *cough* OP *cough*).
Women's roles and the influence of feminism are really good "hot buttons" to do that with.
I have my own opinions and beliefs about feminism and its effects on the secular world and on the Church, but that's not appropriate for (or pertinent to) this thread............
Women's roles and the influence of feminism are really good "hot buttons" to do that with.
I have my own opinions and beliefs about feminism and its effects on the secular world and on the Church, but that's not appropriate for (or pertinent to) this thread............
As a formerly married person I can say that a man doesn't sneak off a prophylactic during sex and the wife not notice the difference.
If that is his admission as a woman I can understand her not trusting him or wanting to have sex after that betrayal. If you can't trust a man in the most intimate vulnerable moments, you can't trust him.
If that is his admission as a woman I can understand her not trusting him or wanting to have sex after that betrayal. If you can't trust a man in the most intimate vulnerable moments, you can't trust him.
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I try to learn something from each of these threads. I also try to be objective and not judge, any body. Some ( call it most) of the responses here show that people really don't know much about people.
I can't help but think that there were signs of problems from the start.
The OP may need to seek some counseling himself.
Why does someone ignore warning signs?
Why does anyone marry someone who needs mood altering drugs just to be normal?
Why do we drug people as opposed to help them?
Us humans are a mess.
I can't help but think that there were signs of problems from the start.
The OP may need to seek some counseling himself.
Why does someone ignore warning signs?
Why does anyone marry someone who needs mood altering drugs just to be normal?
Why do we drug people as opposed to help them?
Us humans are a mess.
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