I have a 12 years old daughter and I recently (2 years ago) married a guy who was supposedly christian. We went to church together, read the Bible. After our marriage when we moved in together in our new condo, he started to change. He started to be verbally abusive, not just towards me but my daughter as well. He called us names, putting me and my daughter down, to the point when my daughter is "afraid" of him, not because he would ever physically hit her ( which he never did and would never do) but because of the yelling, name calling etc. We are walking on eggshells at home.....not knowing what we come home to. And it is getting worse and worse. Now he swears with God's name, calling me names...it's awful. He stopped coming to the church with us and now I'm at the point when I don't know what to do. I don't care how ignorant, rude, or un-loving he is towards me (which is very depressing) but it's very hurtful and unacceptable how he is towards my daughter. I don't want him to "ruin" her with his controlling and putting down attitude.....I'm so lost what to do. I know this is not a reason to get divorce, but what about my daughter? I can't have this man ruin her! ☹️
How is his relationship with Jesus? if he doesn't have one he definitely is a wolf in sheeps clothing, if his relationship with Jesus is deteriorating, then it's simply the fact he is back sliding to the man he used to be with out Christ.
Talk to your pastor, and your family if they are christians. I don't mean professing Christians I mean genuine Christians, who have repented of their sins and accepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior. Anyone can say they are a Christian, but the proof is in their words, thoughts and deeds.
His words and actions don't line up with how a Godly man is supposed to live and treat his family.
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