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VioletReigns

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#41
Awwww, don't worry about it, Ole. What does it matter, really? Don't waste your time trying to be a people pleaser, Jesus is faithful to teach us and is setting us free in his image. ♥

The more I focus on other people's opinions of me, or even on what I myself think about me, the more stale life becomes. The amazing revelation of Jesus Christ alive in me, (the very CHRIST dwelling in ME!!! \:D/ ) obliterates the need to be validated in this world, ya know? Glory to God!! I'd rather live life than try to figure it out.
:)

 
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#42
Spoken to me by a wise woman: "To be happy, just forget about you."
 
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#44
I am not interested in pleasing people, but I was told that I was bullying people so I wanted to rectify that situation if I could. But no one has come forward except my accuser, and that individual won't be kind enough to show posts where I have bullied, so I am drawing the conclusion that I'm being trolled
 
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#45
Lighten up on yourself, the board has spoken and you are not a bully, be at peace. :] :)
 

seoulsearch

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#46
*Seoulsearch hopes her attempt at humor doesn't fall flat.*

Olerica, if I told you that you were bullying me, does that mean you would send me one of your fabulous cheesecakes in order to try to make up for it?

In that case... YES. YEESSSS, indeed, you are most DEFINITELY bullying me and I am very... hungry.

Now please send that cheesecake to... Do I get to pick the flavor too? Er, I mean, STOP bullying me!!

(However, you may continue to say whatever you like to me if it means you will send me more scrumptious food.)
 
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#47
Who is the bully giving out cheesecakes? I want in on that. I'm suddenly feeling very picked on and vulnerable.
 
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#48
Well, at the time, I didn't. I was sulking at school about a girlfriend with MS, and the Art Teacher actually wrote this on the board in big letters as she said it.
 

seoulsearch

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#49
Who is the bully giving out cheesecakes? I want in on that. I'm suddenly feeling very picked on and vulnerable.

Bullying has never been so... DELICIOUS!

I'm also feeling very... left out...

If being bullied will get me a cheesecake, I'm hoping being excluded from a clique will get me at least a loaf of bread and maybe a pie...
 

Lynx

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#51
What? There's cheesecake at stake? Nobody told me that!!
 
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#52
What? There's cheesecake at stake? Nobody told me that!!
Me either!! I want some cheesecake!

P.S. Let's all add this to the never-ending list of threads that got derailed by food...:p

P.P.S. No, Olerica, you have not bullied me, but I still want some cheesecake. :)
 

Lynx

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#54
I wouldn't know how to be non-silly - no experience y'know - but I imagine it would be very boring.
 
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Oh, I forgot the smile in my post that indicated that I was delighted with you. Come, visit, eat cheesecake!
 

Lynx

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#56
For free? Tsk tsk, that's no way to run a profitable business. :p
 

Lynx

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#58
This is true, so true. So when are you sending me my cheesecake? :D
 
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Sadly, God doesn't provide shipping. *sad panda*
 

Lynx

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If only, oh if only a cheesecake COULD be shipped... I'd pay for the cheesecake, shipping and extra for the trouble.

Alas, such is not to be. Someone really needs to get on the stick and invent that teleporter already.