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What is a “physically attracted person” though? How society views them or how a individual who doesn’t follow society view them? I go with the second. I refuse to follow the ways of how society runs.
That’s hard to pinpoint because we all have different ways of viewing what attracts us in the first place. Attraction in the eye is easy to do (and for some can become lust instead of love) but attraction in the heart of a person is more complex unless you get to know that person on a more deeper level which decides for you whether they’re the type of person you want to be with. That’s where I’m coming from, but I don’t expect people to understand that unless you walk in my shoes.
And that’s probably why I’m single lol.
I have no problem with people agreeing that looks matter, and in some ways I agree (like with your first post) but I wouldn’t base the whole “looks” thing to find me a partner.
That’s hard to pinpoint because we all have different ways of viewing what attracts us in the first place. Attraction in the eye is easy to do (and for some can become lust instead of love) but attraction in the heart of a person is more complex unless you get to know that person on a more deeper level which decides for you whether they’re the type of person you want to be with. That’s where I’m coming from, but I don’t expect people to understand that unless you walk in my shoes.
And that’s probably why I’m single lol.
I have no problem with people agreeing that looks matter, and in some ways I agree (like with your first post) but I wouldn’t base the whole “looks” thing to find me a partner.
My point was that often times people who say looks don't matter tend to automatically assume it's a shallow mindset. Obviously we all have some differences in what we're looking for, but the general notion of having something beyond appearance and with a strong emotional connection can be just as important for someone that's interested in someone that also wants what they deem attractive. The two are not mutually exclusive. That was my point. You took a broad concept and turned it into a specific one, hence the misunderstanding.
Most people have been, or are, in those shoes. Anyone looking for an in depth, close, personal, sincere relationship feels exactly that way. They did long before you and will continue to long after.
So clearly that's not your reason for being single. But we both knew that already =P
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