Do females find shy guys weak?

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Lighthearted

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Of course there is hope Friend...
And Yahweh...I don't carry a "woman" card...I carry a human being card. I have my own mind...I don't lump myself in any club :)
 
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This girl really hits the nail on the head. The video is more about the way shy guys think than about signs. She knows what she's talking about. (not a joke) I used to be very shy so I know..

[video=youtube;KpOEJd5LRVQ]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KpOEJd5LRVQ[/video]
 
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Oncefallen

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Guess that's why I'm single. I was married to the bad boy, outgoing, life of the party type that broke my heart repeatedly over many,many years. I'm not interested in bad men anymore...I want a Godly, loving, attentive man in my life...I don't care if he's shy or self proclaimed nerd! :) And, if he doesn't love himself, I've got enough love for both of us...
Ummmm, if he doesn't love himself (I'm not talking about egotism either) save yourself a lot of trouble and stay away.

Persons with no/low self esteem will either drain their partner dry emotionally or self destruct the relationship because deep down inside they don't think they deserve a good thing.
 

Lighthearted

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Ummmm, if he doesn't love himself (I'm not talking about egotism either) save yourself a lot of trouble and stay away.

Persons with no/low self esteem will either drain their partner dry emotionally or self destruct the relationship because deep down inside they don't think they deserve a good thing.
Ahh...but what do you think happens to a shy guy that finds a woman to break open his shell? I don't think he drains her...I think he finds his confidence perhaps because of her...and that will be a very blessed woman indeed!!!!
 
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[video=youtube;Bz61YQWZuYU]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Bz61YQWZuYU[/video]
 

Pipp

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No... who says shyness is a weakness?
 
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I agree that God and people can give us confidence. I have been blessed by people in that way amen.
 
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I'm not sure about if I'm mostly shy or mostly talkative,I guess I'm both because around women that are close to my age I don't talk at first usually,though on here I tend to talk right away,so I suppose I'm a rather balanced shy and unshy guy so I guess either one is ok,then again I've never been on a date or otherwise so I don't have experience on sparking a relationship.
 
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