Does he like me or is he just being a gentleman?

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Tintin

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Nice_Lady said:
I hate when a man expect a lady to pay the bill or "share" the payment. Am i supposed to earn same (so that we "share" payment) or more (so that i pay the bill)?? If he is mentally or phisically weak (so that he is not able to earn more than just for himself) - let him stay alone. Who cares?
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Wow. You're a charmer. It's not right that a man expects the woman to pay the bill, but what's wrong with sharing the payment? After all, it's different to 60 or so years ago. Nowadays, many women have their own income, so they can pay their way. Don't stamp your foot. You want the perks of being a man, you can take the disadvantages too. Viva la equality.
 
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Wow. You're a charmer. It's not right that a man expects the woman to pay the bill, but what's wrong with sharing the payment? After all, it's different to 60 or so years ago. Nowadays, many women have their own income, so they can pay their way. Don't stamp your foot. You want the perks of being a man, you can take the disadvantages too. Viva la equality.
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If i work then let him give birth to the children WE make.
 
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Nice_Lady said:
Or better "if u d let him enpregnant u MAY BE he will marry u"
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I could be wrong but I think it's "impregnate". Anyway, seems you like to live in the realm of extremes.
 
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Nice_Lady said:
If i work then let him give birth to the children WE make.
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See. I think you made a typo when you entered your username for this forum. I don't see a Nice Lady. We get it, you hate men. You want to see them suffer. You'll need to heal of that bitterness if you want to get anywhere in life.
 
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Sirk said:
I could be wrong but I think it's "impregnate". Anyway, seems you like to live in the realm of extremes.
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Used to live with muslims i understand their morals have much in common with the Bible requirements for obedience.
 
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Nice_Lady said:
Used to live with muslims i understand their morals have much in common with the Bible requirements for obedience.
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How nice and what does that have to do with anything here?
 
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Tintin said:
See. I think you made a typo when you entered your username for this forum. I don't see a Nice Lady. We get it, you hate men. You want to see them suffer. You'll need to heal of that bitterness if you want to get anywhere in life.
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If she hates men she is really gonna grow to loathe me. Lol
 
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Tintin said:
See. I think you made a typo when you entered your username for this forum. I don't see a Nice Lady. We get it, you hate men. You want to see them suffer. You'll need to heal of that bitterness if you want to get anywhere in life.
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Not true. If i wanted to watch them suffer i would go into the army and shout commands at them all ;)
 
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Sirk said:
If she hates men she is really gonna grow to loathe me. Lol
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Hopefully. ;) Really. I'm sick of some women receiving the perks of being a man (even though these really are diminishing in our current world) and avoiding the disadvantages.
 
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Nice_Lady said:
Not true. If i wanted to watch them suffer i would go into the army and shout commands at them all ;)
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I hope to God that this is a case of cultural miscommunication because you're starting to annoy me.
 
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Hopefully. ;) Really. I'm sick of some women receiving the perks of being a man (even though these really are diminishing in our current world) and avoiding the disadvantages.
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I was married to one of these religious women. Turns out it she was one of the most wicked people I have ever known. She has already moved on to her next victim and we ain't even divorced yet. Lol
 
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How nice and what does that have to do with anything here?
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Ok let me start again - when was the last time u saw or even heard of an muslim woman (with only her eyes uncovered) to work?
 
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Ok let me start again - when was the last time u saw or even heard of an muslim woman (with only her eyes uncovered) to work?
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Don't know any muslim women and don't really care too. My guess is that I wouldn't have anything in common with them except that maybe black is my favorite color. Lol
 
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I am kind of tired by now to see that men are getting categorized as evil. Only because a few have hurt you doesn't mean they're all evil. Plus hate is of the devil. You are hating something that's made in the image of God. I think we all have more than enough reason to make it all easy and just say '' I hate men'' or ''I hate woman'' or ''I hate people'' get your head straight lady.
 
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Roh_Chris said:
The guy is a gentleman and he treats all women well. Enjoy the friendship with such a guy, for such people are hard to find. :)
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i agree with this. enjoy his company. continue to get to know him. it could lead to more, but if it doesn't, i think it's ok because you still have a great friend :)
 
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Sirk said:
I was married to one of these religious women. Turns out it she was one of the most wicked people I have ever known. She has already moved on to her next victim and we ain't even divorced yet. Lol
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In what way "religious" women? Is sth wrong to try to obey what God commanded us? And is not "i was" but u R married (still).
 
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In what way "religious" women? Is sth wrong to try to obey what God commanded us? And is not "i was" but u R married (still).
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Yes....I've made no secret that I'm going thru a divorce. And it isn't wrong to try to live up to the standards in the bible....but you yourself cannot and will not do it perfectly...and if you think you can and won't sin against yourself and others you are fooling yourself.
 
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Sirk said:
Don't know any muslim women and don't really care too. My guess is that I wouldn't have anything in common with them except that maybe black is my favorite color. Lol
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I thought u will say "exept to lead them or their husbands to Christ".. so sad to be disobedient and selfish..
 
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I thought u will say "exept to lead them or their husbands to Christ".. so sad to be disobedient and selfish..
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Your expectations of others will kill every relationship you ever enter into.
 
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