Yes, many Christians feel that way because, in a way, we are the minority. And little by little it gets even harder. You are correct about the "go ahead". sometimes, and it's very difficult to take, God may not want a woman to be with anyone. In my view, the small issues to cogitate on in married life are important too. Never question an idea that pops into your mind and cast it off as unimportant. Long ago, I was on a Christian dating site & was told by some that I was too picky. That's only because of the state of the world! the more people misbehave, the more righteousness seems to decrease. Read Proverbs 31: 10-31. Make sure you fill all the "woman" qualities for marriage, constantly talk to Jesus & the Holy Spirit about it & the answer will arrive. And of course patience is diminishing in the world also so be patient in all smiles, trust, faith & rest in your spirit. We all know waiting is extremely difficult but Jesus has help for you. I will pray for you.