Going for Walks at 5 AM??? (The Unrealistic Fantasies We Have as Singles.)
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Lol, no, pilot I am not. I just stand on the ground taking pictures of the planes.
The Vulcan that I posted that picture of had one of it's last official flights during that air shhow
The Avro Vulcan (later Hawker Siddeley Vulcan[SUP][2][/SUP] from July 1963)[SUP][3][/SUP] is a jet-powered tailless delta wing high-altitude strategic bomber, which was operated by the Royal Air Force (RAF) from 1956 until 1984. Aircraft manufacturer A.V. Roe and Company (Avro) designed the Vulcan in response to Specification B.35/46. Of the three V bombers produced, the Vulcan was considered the most technically advanced and hence the riskiest option. Several scale aircraft, designated Avro 707, were produced to test and refine the delta wing design principles.
The Vulcan that I posted that picture of had one of it's last official flights during that air shhow
The Avro Vulcan (later Hawker Siddeley Vulcan[SUP][2][/SUP] from July 1963)[SUP][3][/SUP] is a jet-powered tailless delta wing high-altitude strategic bomber, which was operated by the Royal Air Force (RAF) from 1956 until 1984. Aircraft manufacturer A.V. Roe and Company (Avro) designed the Vulcan in response to Specification B.35/46. Of the three V bombers produced, the Vulcan was considered the most technically advanced and hence the riskiest option. Several scale aircraft, designated Avro 707, were produced to test and refine the delta wing design principles.
To (finally) address the OP: You know I'm not an expert at relationship stuff, so this is just what I have observed. From what I've seen it never works to start with a list of stuff and find someone who fits most of the list. What I have seen work is when two people get together and then they start finding things they like to do together. Maybe he will start walking with her early in the morning or maybe he never will get around to it. Maybe she'll find she like watching Jeopardy with him and start trying to get more answers right than he gets. Maybe they'll both decide "Hey let's try flying a kite" and find they both really enjoy it. Maybe not.
But when they do find something they both like to do, it will be special to them because it will be something they have found that they both genuinely enjoy together. It won't be forced on one side, something one of them does just to make the other person happy.
Of course I do know people who do it the other way. They have a list and they try to make their spouses fit it. You can tell which ones go this route because they're always complaining about their partners' perceived shortcomings. That's the voice of frustration, and the inevitable end result of this route.
Mind you, this is just what I have observed. As one with no personal experience I could very well be way out in left field.
But when they do find something they both like to do, it will be special to them because it will be something they have found that they both genuinely enjoy together. It won't be forced on one side, something one of them does just to make the other person happy.
Of course I do know people who do it the other way. They have a list and they try to make their spouses fit it. You can tell which ones go this route because they're always complaining about their partners' perceived shortcomings. That's the voice of frustration, and the inevitable end result of this route.
Mind you, this is just what I have observed. As one with no personal experience I could very well be way out in left field.
Kim, you are a brave girl so I doubt anyone in their right senses would want to mess with you. But even if they did, you should warn them that you have an Indian brother who can easily steal their credit card details and make them pay for his luxurious escapades! That would put the fear in them! 
Ah, but it's just a fantasy.
Probably my most unrealistic fantasy would be that there's someone out there who enjoys food, but is perfectly content with my limited cooking skills. I need someone sophisticated enough to actually eat vegetables, but not so sophisticated that he notices when my chicken is a bit rubbery.
Also one can be sophisticated enough to notice something, but aware enough to not comment on it. I remember the story of the wife who had a rough day one time. When supper was on the table the rolls were decidedly scorched. The husband mentioned the green beans were good, but didn't say anything about the rolls.
After supper their daughter said, "Dad are you feeling okay? You didn't even notice the rolls were burned."
The husband said, "I noticed, but your mom has had a rather hard day today. When I have a rough day like that I would probably burn the rolls too. And after a day like she has had, she didn't need me pointing the rolls out."
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Probably my most unrealistic fantasy would be that there's someone out there who enjoys food, but is perfectly content with my limited cooking skills. I need someone sophisticated enough to actually eat vegetables, but not so sophisticated that he notices when my chicken is a bit rubbery.
Funny, I just read that story you mentioned the other day. But yeah... a guy who cooks is amazing, but realistically he would still need me to cook sometimes. So I'd want him to be content with what I cooked. I'd prefer it to be actual contentment and not just wisdom to keep his mouth closed.
(PS. I am not a bad cook. I just don't do gourmet or fancy dishes.)
(PS. I am not a bad cook. I just don't do gourmet or fancy dishes.)