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I mean, I agree with this, but I also don't agree with this. God isn't a matchmaker like everyone claims. This is such the cookie cutter answer that EVERYONE gives on these forums, but it just isn't exactly true. Paul said that he wishes EVERYONE would stay single, but if you cannot fight the desires of being with someone, then get married ASAP. That means don't even date... just go out and marry someone lol.
So... everyone saying God will provide... God DOES provide... but you have to work for it. God doesn't give lottery tickets. All you can do it go out and hope you find someone, and pray that God will open their hearts into being the right person for you. That's all you can do and expect.
I just feel its kind of dumb for everyone to say "God will provide everything" all the time, because the bible doesn't really support that. If a man wants to eat, the bible says to go out and work. The same thing goes with relationships. If you want one, go find one. If you want it to work, then you have to work VERY HARD into making it work. It isn't just sit on your hands and have God do it all, because that isn't how God works.
So... everyone saying God will provide... God DOES provide... but you have to work for it. God doesn't give lottery tickets. All you can do it go out and hope you find someone, and pray that God will open their hearts into being the right person for you. That's all you can do and expect.
I just feel its kind of dumb for everyone to say "God will provide everything" all the time, because the bible doesn't really support that. If a man wants to eat, the bible says to go out and work. The same thing goes with relationships. If you want one, go find one. If you want it to work, then you have to work VERY HARD into making it work. It isn't just sit on your hands and have God do it all, because that isn't how God works.
I tend not to post in topics like this simply because, I don't really have the time or energy to invest in a relationship. My job keeps me busy...REALLY busy.
The last girlfriend I had...she wouldn't let me be me. And I guess it just comes down to a matter of principles...am I willing to change just to woo a woman? Not in any real world.
Let me be clear, when you sign on for me you sign on for someone who has season tickets to pacer games, watches every cubs and bears game religiously if he can, falls asleep to sports center, does his 9 to 5 and his 5 to 1, and so forth...
But I mean finding a relationship just hasn't been a priority of mine, I'm not worried. It might seem like a bad thing to others, but if I'm happy then be happy for me
Anyways ladies, if your still interested, the phone lines are open.