Is there a chance to find a partner at my age of 42

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RoboticMan

RoboticMan

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Lynx said:
So you assume she's lying because what she said contradicts what you believe about women. Now we're getting somewhere.

You're wrong. More than half (so, the majority) of the women I know are not like what you think they are like.

If most of the women you know fit what you believe of women, I invite you to move down here to southwest Tennessee. We got plenty room down here. And if most women wherever you are act like you believe they act, you might need to get out of there. :eek:
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again just saying that you know such and such means nothing you can lie about it easily
 
Lynx

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RoboticMan said:
again just saying that you know such and such means nothing you can lie about it easily
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And just because she's a woman and claims to not judge a man based on physical appearance doesn't mean she's a liar. You can misjudge somebody easily, especially if you don't know a thing about her.

Invitation rescinded. Do NOT come down to Tennessee. We don't need bigots down here. Stay where you are. They have already become accustomed to you and can deal with your bigotry more effectively than we could.
 
seoulsearch

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RoboticMan said:
But in my opinion women are a bit of a distraction most of them are whores with kids with absent fathers, and they themselves are riddled with mental illness.
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RoboticMan said:
what does my upbringing have to do with this ? anyways my parents were horrible drug addicts that hit me they stuck together for a little while they were never married and my mum was young when she had me.
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RoboticMan said:
so its not random its targeted i can provide proof on how women are trashy here are some sources.

Women commit about half of domestic violence. Source: http://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1359178911000620
Men’s’ and women’s’ brains are wired differently. Source: http://www.uphs.upenn.edu/news/News_Releases/2013/12/verma/
Gender differences in the West are the result of free choices made by innately different men and women. Source: http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/faculty/mariacharles/documents/charles_ARS2011.pdf
40% of women with more than 20 sex partners have an STD. Source: http://s3.amazonaws.com/thf_media/2003/pdf/Bookofcharts.pdf#page=19

i can add more
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You can correct me if I'm getting anything wrong here, but it sounds like your view that "women are trashy" started out with your own life experience, and the way you came to see the very woman who gave birth to you -- your own mother. So, your way of thinking like this is deeply rooted and unlikely to be changed or altered, especially since it sounds like it was repeatedly reinforced throughout your life by instances of women apparently rejecting you (hence your earlier statement about never being kissed and saying it was because of women judging you for your looks.)

I am genuinely sorry for what you have been through. I have known a lot of people whose mothers were not mothers to them at all, and it truly saddens me.

But at the same time, what was your agenda for coming to this site?

It seems that you are insistent upon:

1. Firmly stating that women are all women are worthless and "trashy".

2. Trying to provide "empirical proof" of your beliefs.

3. Vehemently disagreeing with any woman or man who tries to state something that does not agree with what you yourself believe.

Are you looking for others here who share your beliefs? Because you seem to be on a mission to evangelize a "Women Are Evil" message and are looking for fellow believers or those who might convert to your way of thinking.

The reason I'm asking is because if we know this is what you're about, we will then know to take your posts with a whole block of salt and, for the most part, move on, because you have your mind made up and will not hear any other way.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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seoulsearch said:
Are you looking for others here who share your beliefs? Because you seem to be on a mission to evangelize a "Women Are Evil" message and are looking for fellow believers or those who might convert to your way of thinking.
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Good, I'm not the only one who took it that way.

I get the feeling he's a charter member of MGTOW, or at least a devout disciple.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Possibly. He IS missing the usual "society is stacked against poor men because feminists have rigged it so men can't get a fair break" line of talk.
 
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TheIndianGirl

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RoboticMan said:
its easy to lie and say you like confident guys the truth is you would turn away ugly and or short guys dont lie to me
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Curious, how would you define an "ugly" guy?

Generally speaking, both men and women are drawn towards people whom they consider attractive. Thankfully beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A lot goes into what is considered attractive, such as personality, confidence, intelligence, and to a degree looks. It is the whole package.
 
RoboticMan

RoboticMan

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TheIndianGirl said:
Curious, how would you define an "ugly" guy?

Generally speaking, both men and women are drawn towards people whom they consider attractive. Thankfully beauty is in the eye of the beholder. A lot goes into what is considered attractive, such as personality, confidence, intelligence, and to a degree looks. It is the whole package.
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that is nonsense toddlers can tell attractive faces from ugly ones an ugly man would have a weak jawline, recessed chin, short, asymmetry facially, scars ,NW1 2 3 4 or 5 or just bald bad facial proportions or just horrible bones etc mixing around negative traits in a mans face will make them ugly so they are undesirable because of hypergamy and other female made problems
 
RoboticMan

RoboticMan

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seoulsearch said:
You can correct me if I'm getting anything wrong here, but it sounds like your view that "women are trashy" started out with your own life experience, and the way you came to see the very woman who gave birth to you -- your own mother. So, your way of thinking like this is deeply rooted and unlikely to be changed or altered, especially since it sounds like it was repeatedly reinforced throughout your life by instances of women apparently rejecting you (hence your earlier statement about never being kissed and saying it was because of women judging you for your looks.)

I am genuinely sorry for what you have been through. I have known a lot of people whose mothers were not mothers to them at all, and it truly saddens me.

But at the same time, what was your agenda for coming to this site?

It seems that you are insistent upon:

1. Firmly stating that women are all women are worthless and "trashy".

2. Trying to provide "empirical proof" of your beliefs.

3. Vehemently disagreeing with any woman or man who tries to state something that does not agree with what you yourself believe.

Are you looking for others here who share your beliefs? Because you seem to be on a mission to evangelize a "Women Are Evil" message and are looking for fellow believers or those who might convert to your way of thinking.

The reason I'm asking is because if we know this is what you're about, we will then know to take your posts with a whole block of salt and, for the most part, move on, because you have your mind made up and will not hear any other way.
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i just wanted to give my 2cents on the question
 
RoboticMan

RoboticMan

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Lynx said:
And just because she's a woman and claims to not judge a man based on physical appearance doesn't mean she's a liar. You can misjudge somebody easily, especially if you don't know a thing about her.

Invitation rescinded. Do NOT come down to Tennessee. We don't need bigots down here. Stay where you are. They have already become accustomed to you and can deal with your bigotry more effectively than we could.
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its an obvious lie its like saying you have been to the moon
 
Lynx

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proverbs35 said:
@Lynx
@seoulsearch

The word incel come to mind. 🚩
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RoboticMan said:
that is nonsense toddlers can tell attractive faces from ugly ones an ugly man would have a weak jawline, recessed chin, short, asymmetry facially, scars ,NW1 2 3 4 or 5 or just bald bad facial proportions or just horrible bones etc mixing around negative traits in a mans face will make them ugly so they are undesirable because of hypergamy and other female made problems
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"Hypergamy."

Yup, proverbs called it.
 
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RodB651

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Is there a chance to find a partner at my age of 42?..

Yes.
 
Lynx

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RoboticMan said:
id consider myself part of the community i have like 50k posts on .is, does forced loneliness and involuntary celibacy devalue anything i said?
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No, but it does explain a LOT about your posts.
 
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