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Magenta

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Hey, I think this might be a little weird (for me)- but what are the odds that your username is the same as mine with just an 'h' added?

Maybe I'm being totally self centered, but it is strange, is it not? Not exactly a common username.

Kind of Twilight Zone stuff. Just sayin', this is weird.
I noticed that right away :D
 

maxwel

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Hello everyone. I am new here. There is something that has been going on and on in my head for a while now. and I think I need someone to talk to about this personal thing. Preferably a man, since I need some advice, and also a different point of view/perspective. If anyone is willing to talk to me, please reply with a private message? I'd appreciate it so incredibly much. God bless you all.

I'd love to help, but I don't talk to any of the girls around here... some of them are really creepy and scary.

Come to think of it, I don't talk to the guys around here either.

Sometimes when I'm really uncomfortable, I don't even talk to myself.


But ya know how it is... safety first.
 
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Galatea

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Thats odd,thats one of the first things I noticed....
Yeah, well they say impersonation is the sincerest form of flattery- but I honestly don't recall asking men to pm me about anything, much less virginity, so if it is impersonation it is not exactly a good one.

I thought it might sound self centered to mention it, but I was on a secular forum and people were impersonated all the time. Sometimes it was very subtle. The impersonator would use the same avatar as the person they were pretending to be, and just vary the name by one letter.

Just find it kind of strange.
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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I thought it might sound self centered to mention it, but I was on a secular forum and people were impersonated all the time. Sometimes it was very subtle. The impersonator would use the same avatar as the person they were pretending to be, and just vary the name by one letter.
We've done that here to be facetious─ I was about to use your avatar as I posted this, but then thought better of it (no offense, of course). :p
 

Magenta

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We've done that here to be facetious─ I was about to use your avatar as I posted this, but then thought better of it (no offense, of course). :p
Some time ago a whole bunch of us were using huglife's avatar. It was fun :D Hug had said something to that effect and then returned day or two later to see everyone with the furby cat avvie and it was hilarious. I made an avvie with the furbie cat sitting on a unicorn :D Then Hug lost her avatar somehow, but I found the image a short time ago and posted it to her :) So now huglife has her furby cat avvie back :)
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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Some time ago a whole bunch of us were using huglife's avatar. It was fun :D Hug had said something to that effect and then returned day or two later to see everyone with the furby cat avvie and it was hilarious. I made an avvie with the furbie cat sitting on a unicorn :D Then Hug lost her avatar somehow, but I found the image a short time ago and posted it to her :) So now huglife has her furby cat avvie back :)
Lol! Good times.
 
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Galatea

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We've done that here to be facetious─ I was about to use your avatar as I posted this, but then thought better of it (no offense, of course). :p
No offense taken, I just wondered if I came off as a person looking for random men to pm me, which is kind of not very pleasant. On the other site, it was done to fool people into thinking you were talking to one person, when you were really talking to the imposter. That kind of thing.

But, it is what it is. I certainly can't change anyone's perception of me. Maybe I am being too sensitive, I don't know.
 
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Siberian_Khatru

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I just wondered if I came off as a person looking for random men to pm me...
Oh definitely, you do. Gotta watch those first impressions you give off, Galatea. By the way... did you get my PM?

Okay, facetious time is over. Goodnight CC.
 
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Galatea

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Oh definitely, you do. Gotta watch those first impressions you give off, Galatea. By the way... did you get my PM?

Okay, facetious time is over. Goodnight CC.
Lol, no I did not. It must have gotten buried in the deluge. Good Night.
 

Magenta

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No offense taken, I just wondered if I came off as a person looking for random men to pm me, which is kind of not very pleasant. On the other site, it was done to fool people into thinking you were talking to one person, when you were really talking to the imposter. That kind of thing.

But, it is what it is. I certainly can't change anyone's perception of me. Maybe I am being too sensitive, I don't know.
Rest assured that nobody who knows you even a little could believe you would start a thread to ask men you do not know to privately message you so you could talk about the most personal private and intimate parts of your sexual life and body.
 

seoulsearch

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No offense taken, I just wondered if I came off as a person looking for random men to pm me, which is kind of not very pleasant. On the other site, it was done to fool people into thinking you were talking to one person, when you were really talking to the imposter. That kind of thing.

But, it is what it is. I certainly can't change anyone's perception of me. Maybe I am being too sensitive, I don't know.
The only thing I could see you soliciting people to randomly PM you about might be "Pride and Prejudice" :D, and even then, I'm pretty sure you would invite BOTH genders to talk about it, and not just men.

In fact, you come across as the kind of person who might even try to start a book club on CC...

I mean... Er. :cool:

D'oh! :p
 
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Galatea

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The only thing I could see you soliciting people to randomly PM you about might be "Pride and Prejudice" :D, and even then, I'm pretty sure you would invite BOTH genders to talk about it, and not just men.

In fact, you come across as the kind of person who might even try to start a book club on CC...

I mean... Er. :cool:

D'oh! :p
Thanks to all of you for being so nice to me. I appreciate it very much. You and Magenta were two of the first people I really talked to here, so it means a lot to me for you both to be so kind. :)
 
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galathea

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What's Naboth? No idea. Also I have read replies on the thread, and I repeat: I wasn't looking for perverted men to pm me or anything like that. And again, I didn't ask specifically for men to reply, I said preferably. And at the end of my op I said 'if anything is willing to help please reply with a private message'. It's all. I've been questioned enough already on that thread. And the galathea thing, easy explanation. I am a big lover of butterflies and there's one called Melanargia Galathea. I was going to chose between that one and one called Erynnis Funeral is, but that one seemed a little dark and Galathea sounded more beautiful. I had no idea that someone here had already that username because I chose the one with an h right away, therefore I didn't see there was already one person using it without the h. Quite frankly I am a little tired of the post thing. Yes I know I was new here and I asked right away but, again, I wanted to get it off my chest. Yes the topic was virginity and, again, I didn't ask women because I knew that being a woman myself would raise certain opinions and possibly a conflict and wanted the perspective and the point of view from men. I do not know why it seems so hard to understand. I'm tired of having to explain myself. Bye.
 

Tommy379

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What's Naboth? No idea. Also I have read replies on the thread, and I repeat: I wasn't looking for perverted men to pm me or anything like that. And again, I didn't ask specifically for men to reply, I said preferably. And at the end of my op I said 'if anything is willing to help please reply with a private message'. It's all. I've been questioned enough already on that thread. And the galathea thing, easy explanation. I am a big lover of butterflies and there's one called Melanargia Galathea. I was going to chose between that one and one called Erynnis Funeral is, but that one seemed a little dark and Galathea sounded more beautiful. I had no idea that someone here had already that username because I chose the one with an h right away, therefore I didn't see there was already one person using it without the h. Quite frankly I am a little tired of the post thing. Yes I know I was new here and I asked right away but, again, I wanted to get it off my chest. Yes the topic was virginity and, again, I didn't ask women because I knew that being a woman myself would raise certain opinions and possibly a conflict and wanted the perspective and the point of view from men. I do not know why it seems so hard to understand. I'm tired of having to explain myself. Bye.
It will be ok.
 
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