Sadly, I see the singles forum more like a dumping ground for those who think that they are being punished or that something is wrong with them due to the fact that they are single. Very rare are the awesome testimonies of single CHRISTIANS who are joyful, filled with the holy spirit, out there doing what GOD wants them to do...helping others, involved in a relationship with JESUS CHRIST! What is mostly seen are those pitiful people who have either been manipulated by someone, or are introverted just a little, or are seeking others to join them in a pity party. After a while, it does get mundane. The JOY of our Salvation goes down like a leaky balloon! To any single CHRISTIAN (and at one time, most all of us were), I would say "Get beyond this roadblock that old satan wants you to keep spinning your wheels, and get started on a wonderful journey that JESUS, as the Bridegroom, wants you to travel with HIM! What better way can you think of?