I see everywhere how many people are involved in relationship drama that always causes pain, hurt, depression and insanity. I'm here wondering why I would want to enter that community.
You are a man- so you are the hunter. I can tell you, my problems all stem from me pursuing him. I am way below his standards, and it was just a mess.
Since you are a man, you can pursue a woman you believe worthy of investing your time and trusting your heart.
I am screwed up, but it is all my own doing. Pride, really to get right down to the crux.
What I am saying is, if you pursue a woman who you deem a good catch, it ought not devolve into pain, depression, insanity, etc.