Traditional Family: Husband works and Wife is a stay at home mom.

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Do you want a tradional family somday?


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starfield

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I'd definitely like this structure for a family.

I was personally raised by a stay at home mom and I think its a beautiful and invaluable thing for kids. Mom's love is not the same as Dad's love. And I want that for my kids.

I think its sad that modern culture has taken moms out of the homes as much as it did. So.. everyone, what are your thoughts? And for women in particular, do you want to be a stay at home mom? If so, how come? If not, how come?
I love that structure of family too. However, I won’t criticise dual-income households. It is feasible for a wife to join the workforce while being a loving, nurturing mother tending to her family. It’s the art of multitasking/maintaining a proper balance. :p
 

PopClick

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At the risk of sounding like a meme or a bumper sticker: Hater's gonna hate. :p
I wouldn't take those kinds of comments too seriously. No matter how you live your life, there is always someone who is going to think badly of your choices. And there will always be someone more religious than you who thinks your choices are not as godly as theirs. You can't please everyone with your life. And it isn't your job anyway.

God knows us as individuals, and He knows what is right for us all. Other humans don't.
:D Thanks, Relena. Odd as it may sound, I didn't take it personally. For the record, I do not want to marry or have children. But it wasn't exactly my lifelong goal to avoid repulsing Calmador. ;)

Seriously though, I just didn't think "repulsive" was a good word to throw around regarding brothers or sisters in Christ, and I decided to tell him so. :D
 
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Kia123

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My perfect ideal is that both parent will be able to stay at home and both parents will get to see their children grow up <3
 
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MissCris

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My perfect ideal is that both parent will be able to stay at home and both parents will get to see their children grow up <3
Not to...squash any dreams here...but if both parents stay at home, there won't be any children to raise, after a couple weeks...

Oh...that's terrible :/
 
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Kia123

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Not to...squash any dreams here...but if both parents stay at home, there won't be any children to raise, after a couple weeks...

Oh...that's terrible :/
Why ?? can you pls explain :)
 

Oncefallen

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**can't believe I just read all 10 pages
 
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KJV15John11

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Not to...squash any dreams here...but if both parents stay at home, there won't be any children to raise, after a couple weeks...

Oh...that's terrible :/
Actually, wouldn't there be LOTS of children to raise? You can only watch sooo much TV. :)
 
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MissCris

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Why ?? can you pls explain :)
No income, no food...people only live a couple weeks without food...

I said it was terrible.

I'll go sit in the corner.
 
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KJV15John11

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No income, no food...people only live a couple weeks without food...

I said it was terrible.

I'll go sit in the corner.
What!?!? You can't live on love? :)
 
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KJV15John11

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Sure, right up until you die from it.

That, friends, is the stuff chick flicks are made of.
DANG IT! (Puts all chick flicks in a bag and takes them to the a Salvation Army) Frickin' Hollywood, playing with my head and heart!
 
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Kia123

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No income, no food...people only live a couple weeks without food...

I said it was terrible.

I'll go sit in the corner.
In australia we have this amazing things called working at home :) i honestly dont know if other coutries have it as good as we do in australia.
Or i have hear the idea of both parents working part time and when one works the other is at home. I think it depends a lot on each person
 
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Jullianna

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Just a few non-abstract responses from someone who's actually been a Christian working wife to a godly man and mother to a grown son who honors God above all things:

1. When a mom with an outside job gets home, trust me...she is very "busy at home". :)
2. Training a child up in the way he/she should go is the responsibility of both parents. That doesn't come from homeschooling. It comes from a child observing parents 24/7: How parents behave when no one is watching; how parents react to difficulties/hardships, how parents express thankfulness and humility in times of blessing; how parents treat one another AND their children, as well as others; how parents mind their tongues/tempers/attitudes; how parents honor the things of God; how parents worship the Lord and communicate with Him OUTSIDE of the church building; etc.
3. Homeschooling does have its benefits, but public schools have their benefits as well, one of which is teaching a Christian child how to live in the world, but be not of it. Homeschoolers eventually have to enter the workplace and I've seen a great many have difficulty with this very thing.
 
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Kia123

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Yea i was extremely antisocial when i first went to school :( but i did learn to suck it up and grow as a person. Haha im now considered to be a friendly person ! its still shocks me :p
 
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Tintin

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In australia we have this amazing things called working at home :) i honestly dont know if other coutries have it as good as we do in australia.
Or i have hear the idea of both parents working part time and when one works the other is at home. I think it depends a lot on each person
Kia, true but not all businesses/work can be completed from home. Even in our beautiful land, Australia!
 
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Ugly

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In australia we have this amazing things called working at home :) i honestly dont know if other coutries have it as good as we do in australia.
Or i have hear the idea of both parents working part time and when one works the other is at home. I think it depends a lot on each person
Ugh... i'd hate to be on a schedule like that in a marriage. What's the point in being married if your life has more to do with being a baby sitter than a spouse? I couldn't handle that.
 
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Kia123

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Kia, true but not all businesses/work can be completed from home. Even in our beautiful land, Australia!
No im aware :( but i know families who are able to do it that way !! And that is why its a dream and not an expected reality :p
 
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KJV15John11

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In australia we have this amazing things called working at home :) i honestly dont know if other coutries have it as good as we do in australia.
Or i have hear the idea of both parents working part time and when one works the other is at home. I think it depends a lot on each person
That can be done any place and any time if the parents choose to do it and work together. Before my daughter was born, my ex and I decided that she would stay home. After a while, my ex wanted to go back to work so I changed jobs and shifts so that she could work but my daughter was never in daycare.

It didn't allow any personal time for my ex and I though. Which in hindsight, was a blessing. :)