What are some of the ways to a woman's heart?? Ladies?? :)
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Most definitely!!!
I once knew a guy who told me he knew that "Women hate insecurities," and went on to tell me how "very good-looking and smart" he was. He then proceeded to tell me that he knew he was a "Mack Daddy." (LOL... this was a LONG time ago--does anyone even use that term anymore???!!)
Um... no. Just no.
It could be different for different people but I know that for me, I want someone who's secure enough to know that if I'm with him, I'm with him, and he trusts that when I say I went to the grocery store, I really went to the grocery store (and have the receipt to prove it.) But if he's constantly asking me for proof of where I was or who I was talking to or why I did this or that... Forget it. I want a partner, not a parent.
I also wouldn't be of much help to someone who constantly put himself down and had no plan of action or motivation to try to better his situation.
If he didn't like the way he looked, well, let's talk about some diet and lifestyle options we could try. I would love having someone to go to the gym with (but it's not a necessity, since I already go on my own.)
If he told me he wasn't smart enough or rich enough or whatever, well, what kinds of topics are you interested in learning about? Are there classes you could take, or that we could take together?
And as far as money goes, does he work hard, is he responsible, and does he manage what he has well, and in a Godly manner? Someone like that is already 10 steps ahead of the crowd.
We all have insecurities, but it would be nice to find someone who is equally determined to plot a course of action to work on those things once we've both put them all on the table.
Instead of saying, "Man, we sure are losers!", I would hope he'd be able to give me a high five and say, "All right, baby, now that we know what the enemy looks like... What are we going to do together in order to kick its butt?!"
I once knew a guy who told me he knew that "Women hate insecurities," and went on to tell me how "very good-looking and smart" he was. He then proceeded to tell me that he knew he was a "Mack Daddy." (LOL... this was a LONG time ago--does anyone even use that term anymore???!!)
Um... no. Just no.
It could be different for different people but I know that for me, I want someone who's secure enough to know that if I'm with him, I'm with him, and he trusts that when I say I went to the grocery store, I really went to the grocery store (and have the receipt to prove it.) But if he's constantly asking me for proof of where I was or who I was talking to or why I did this or that... Forget it. I want a partner, not a parent.
I also wouldn't be of much help to someone who constantly put himself down and had no plan of action or motivation to try to better his situation.
If he didn't like the way he looked, well, let's talk about some diet and lifestyle options we could try. I would love having someone to go to the gym with (but it's not a necessity, since I already go on my own.)
If he told me he wasn't smart enough or rich enough or whatever, well, what kinds of topics are you interested in learning about? Are there classes you could take, or that we could take together?
And as far as money goes, does he work hard, is he responsible, and does he manage what he has well, and in a Godly manner? Someone like that is already 10 steps ahead of the crowd.
We all have insecurities, but it would be nice to find someone who is equally determined to plot a course of action to work on those things once we've both put them all on the table.
Instead of saying, "Man, we sure are losers!", I would hope he'd be able to give me a high five and say, "All right, baby, now that we know what the enemy looks like... What are we going to do together in order to kick its butt?!"
From what I hear, the older you get the less some things matter.
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No one answer since not all women are the same. Perhaps avoiding questions and mindsets like this is a good first step. What one woman finds attractive may not work for another. Recognize them as individuals and treat them as such, rather than a mass of humans that require a specific formula that will work on them all.
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In all seriousness, Ugly is right. Everyone is different. However, I think I have stumbled onto a universal truth about women, and if men would pay attention, they'd have the lady of their dreams' hearts forever.
SECURITY
I don't mean financial, I mean emotional security. If you make her feel like she's the only one and there are no side chicks, you're not with her just until something better comes along, if she is the only woman in existence to you- then her heart is yours.
There's a reason why so many women loved the movie Titanic, and it's not because Leonardo di Caprio was so fine- or The Notebook, (although Ryan Gosling was so fine). Do you know why? Because Jack died for Rose and because Noah was completely devoted to Allie.
SECURITY- ALL women want it, feeling that her heart is safe with you.
My theory, only- but I think I am right.
Now, some women like a good cook, some could not care less, some like sensitive, some like macho, some like good listeners, some like good talkers. But by God, ALL women want to feel safe.
SECURITY
I don't mean financial, I mean emotional security. If you make her feel like she's the only one and there are no side chicks, you're not with her just until something better comes along, if she is the only woman in existence to you- then her heart is yours.
There's a reason why so many women loved the movie Titanic, and it's not because Leonardo di Caprio was so fine- or The Notebook, (although Ryan Gosling was so fine). Do you know why? Because Jack died for Rose and because Noah was completely devoted to Allie.
SECURITY- ALL women want it, feeling that her heart is safe with you.
My theory, only- but I think I am right.
Now, some women like a good cook, some could not care less, some like sensitive, some like macho, some like good listeners, some like good talkers. But by God, ALL women want to feel safe.