What are some of the ways to a woman's heart?? Ladies?? :)
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They say that the stomach (good food) is the way to a man's heart... (power tools might work too)...
What are some of the ways to a woman's heart??
Hopefully we'll get a few more answers from the ladies than from the men..
What are some of the ways to a woman's heart??
Hopefully we'll get a few more answers from the ladies than from the men..
Also...
* Good manners (to everyone, not just certain people.)
* Good listener, but someone who shares everything on his mind as well.
* Compassionate, but knows when to put his foot down when needed (is understanding but doesn't enable people, including me.)
* Responsible and keeps his word.
* Great sense of humor.
And on a more serious note, loyalty and faithfulness (which I definitely know is required by both people in the relationship.)
But *please* don't tell me that you need me or love me and then go download visuals of naked women. You'll utterly crush my heart. ("Don't break this heart of mine... Just remember: it might not heal this time." -- Toto).
I've had lots of guy friends who struggle with this and I'm more than happy to listen and pray for them as friends, but on a personal level, it's not something I could ever put up with again in another relationship. I don't expect perfection, but if it's a regular, obsessive habit or addiction, I would have to say no to anything more than a friendship.
In fact, this is a major reason why I've been single for so long. I'd rather be alone than have to deal with all that.
It would be nice to find someone who could accept that I'm real--with all the flaws that come with it--and not a fantasy.
S
I'm afraid sometimes a guy liking a female isn't enough.It takes effort to make it work and as the bible says we should put the other persons interests above our own and visa versa.Sometimes guys can miss it because they may not be at that place to be receptive enough of you want/need.
I can say I like chicken and wanna eat some for dinner....I buy the chicken..great...(equivalent of a guy getting the girl he desires)
..but the chicken has to be worked on....cooked slowly to make it edible..(soft..tender and-delicious)
Its the same thing a guy has to do (metaphor of da chicken analogy)..he has to make the effort to make the relationship dynamic work and over time you heart becomes tender (softened and loving)..
Yet it is always a two way thing and the key is communication ( being able to communicate with gods help verbal/non verbal)
..never the easiest of tasks!!
S
Actually... a guy who cooked for me would definitely have me a little starry-eyed.
Also...
* Good manners (to everyone, not just certain people.)
* Good listener, but someone who shares everything on his mind as well.
* Compassionate, but knows when to put his foot down when needed (is understanding but doesn't enable people, including me.)
* Responsible and keeps his word.
* Great sense of humor.
And on a more serious note, loyalty and faithfulness (which I definitely know is required by both people in the relationship.)
But *please* don't tell me that you need me or love me and then go download visuals of naked women. You'll utterly crush my heart. ("Don't break this heart of mine... Just remember: it might not heal this time." -- Toto).
I've had lots of guy friends who struggle with this and I'm more than happy to listen and pray for them as friends, but on a personal level, it's not something I could ever put up with again in another relationship. I don't expect perfection, but if it's a regular, obsessive habit or addiction, I would have to say no to anything more than a friendship.
In fact, this is a major reason why I've been single for so long. I'd rather be alone than have to deal with all that.
It would be nice to find someone who could accept that I'm real--with all the flaws that come with it--and not a fantasy.
Also...
* Good manners (to everyone, not just certain people.)
* Good listener, but someone who shares everything on his mind as well.
* Compassionate, but knows when to put his foot down when needed (is understanding but doesn't enable people, including me.)
* Responsible and keeps his word.
* Great sense of humor.
And on a more serious note, loyalty and faithfulness (which I definitely know is required by both people in the relationship.)
But *please* don't tell me that you need me or love me and then go download visuals of naked women. You'll utterly crush my heart. ("Don't break this heart of mine... Just remember: it might not heal this time." -- Toto).
I've had lots of guy friends who struggle with this and I'm more than happy to listen and pray for them as friends, but on a personal level, it's not something I could ever put up with again in another relationship. I don't expect perfection, but if it's a regular, obsessive habit or addiction, I would have to say no to anything more than a friendship.
In fact, this is a major reason why I've been single for so long. I'd rather be alone than have to deal with all that.
It would be nice to find someone who could accept that I'm real--with all the flaws that come with it--and not a fantasy.
yep amen to the above!!
J
ya im sure they just melt for someone who spells well
so unfair...
hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha hahaha boy howdy!
This thread was supposed to be for women to answer!
Anyway, what attracts me to a man is probably his determination and discipline in life. I like men who work out, who are ambitious, independent, well read and love to travel.
A man would warm my heart if he is interested in my life and wants to know my opinions. If he motivates me to push myself and gives me the space to grow, then I would think he would make a good life partner.
I am also not into guys who would smother me or get insecure around me. Actions speak louder than words for me.
Anyway, what attracts me to a man is probably his determination and discipline in life. I like men who work out, who are ambitious, independent, well read and love to travel.
A man would warm my heart if he is interested in my life and wants to know my opinions. If he motivates me to push myself and gives me the space to grow, then I would think he would make a good life partner.
I am also not into guys who would smother me or get insecure around me. Actions speak louder than words for me.
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