Why do men suddenly disappear?
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I'm always intrigued by these titles. I know it's a lure to get me to read the OP so kudos to those who come up with these.
First I'm sorry the OP apparently was hurt because not only do men leave..women find the easy way out and not return calls or just disappear too. No that it's the right thing but these blanket gender statements crack me up although unfair.
I would say because of high stress one doesn't want to face. Of... Needy women who won't take I'm sorry I'm not interested as an answer or.....
The grass was greener somewhere. But all in all let's say that no all men are this way. And when it happens maybe.. .. Just maybe it's not a bad thing.
First I'm sorry the OP apparently was hurt because not only do men leave..women find the easy way out and not return calls or just disappear too. No that it's the right thing but these blanket gender statements crack me up although unfair.
I would say because of high stress one doesn't want to face. Of... Needy women who won't take I'm sorry I'm not interested as an answer or.....
The grass was greener somewhere. But all in all let's say that no all men are this way. And when it happens maybe.. .. Just maybe it's not a bad thing.
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I think men disappear sometimes because we can be big chickens? 
Sexual sin is the worst, too, because that one seriously depletes a person spiritually (that's biblical).
''Statistics show that with the vast majority of marital partings it is the woman who leaves''
Why Women Leave | Family Tips | HCCUA.ORG
Contrary to the politically view that it is men who leave most often, it is women who are the majority of those who leave. This has been well established for many years.
Sorry guys. Don't take anything personal. All nonsense I spout is like based on the 3 or 4 people spoke to and the 3 guys I dated or married. I saw another guy here do it too. All women are like this or that. Wait, that's not true.
It's just a false belief you make out of disappointment. They do that too when people didn't get healed. Oh God doesn't heal anymore. Make a whole theology.
I asked God but He didn't say why not and now I got grumpy. Someone even said that God said to him He had someone for me, but not now. I don't believe it. I can't live with a constant false hope. I have to cut my feelings off and concentrate on other things. Thing is it's easier to be single when you believe that marriage will be monstrous anyway. When I don't think or talk about relationships everything goes great. I'd just better stop posting about such things.
It's just a false belief you make out of disappointment. They do that too when people didn't get healed. Oh God doesn't heal anymore. Make a whole theology.
I asked God but He didn't say why not and now I got grumpy. Someone even said that God said to him He had someone for me, but not now. I don't believe it. I can't live with a constant false hope. I have to cut my feelings off and concentrate on other things. Thing is it's easier to be single when you believe that marriage will be monstrous anyway. When I don't think or talk about relationships everything goes great. I'd just better stop posting about such things.
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What puzzles me is, after all these years in which it has been repeatedly proven that women are the chief causes of breakups (both marital and unmarried romantic ones) why is it still believed by so many that men are the ones who disappear the most and cause these breakups?
I don't normally watch programming on tv other than sports, news, old movies, and cooking shows. But you cannot help briefly seeing every once in a while Jerry Springer or Maury Povich highlights of shows with titles such as "I'm breaking up with my boyfriend or husband because he cheats". Then after a while the show reveals that she cheated a dozen more times than he ever did. Shows such as these have been shown dozens of times.
Funny, though, how on Springer's or Povich's shows when these women make these complaints and then videos expose them for the two or three timers that they are. The link I provided does make the point but we can never know with full accuracy as to the actual amounts of such breakups because, as you say, so many people like to point the finger at others rather than themselves.