The Lord leads, but, I hope, pray, maybe, the Lord puts on some other girls hearts to comment on this thread, I know, I KNOW, I did say, at first, for girls to stay by the wayside and just let guys speak, but, the Lord leads, and, I felt led to open it up to all after reading PowEm's comment and realize that with Jorie commenting it is confirmation that girls, indeed, are quite encouraging and insightful, laced with wisdom with their spirit from Him speaking, quietly, yet, boldy.
Edit: almost fergets, julieannie's one word comment was insightful too, as I think that let's us guys know that not the majority of girls are going to get that upset after a motorcycle ride concerning 'hair' as was the case with frenchhorningcatherder