If it's not for sale .. don't advertise it. I had a conversation with a lost man in a store today about the very same thing. I was purchasing something to sleep in and he made a comment about how I shouldn't be afraid to flaunt what I have and how I should wear the piece of clothing out in public. I told him " I would never wear that in public.. it isn't modest" His response was but men don't like modesty.... " I said " well... that's just not me... I wouldn't ever do that. " He said something very true.. he said " I guess it just depends on who you want to attract."