*Disclaimer* I wish the OP the very best and am NOT saying he is anything like this. But this entire thread reminds me of something I ran into a few years ago on a Christian dating site.
A guy contacted me on the site saying he liked that I sounded "like such a normal person" because he said he was tired of women throwing themselves at him due to his appearance. He said he was struggling with lust issues because the women were leaving him very blatant messages and it was depressing him that he just couldn't meet a nice girl who liked him for who he was.
I went to read and look at his profile and it was one of those "Things That Make You Go Hmm." He had about 4 model-quality photos of an extremely good-looking guy... chopping firewood. Without a shirt. Every ab and bicep curling. I was thinking, "Really?" But I gently tried to explain to him that posting those kinds of pictures isn't going to attract the "girl-next-door" type he was seeking.
Men complain that women show no modesty--we ladies have to ask you men to regard our humanity as well. Many men here have complained that women flaunt too much without thinking anything of their effect on men. Gentlemen need to have the same consideration for us ladies. If the gym is your passion, that's wonderful! A tasteful pic of you in a modest (looser) T-shirt and knee-length shorts will convey your hobby while cutting down on the wrong attention. Consideration for modesty is a trait we can all benefit from.
(I do have to tell the end of my story, and Tanner, as I said, I apologize because I know this isn't you, but I wanted to tell the rest of the story and what can happen.)
Guess how the story ended? The picture-perfect guy who looked like he belonged on the cover of a magazine? He didn't exist, or at least, not in the form of the guy who contacted me. It was a set of "borrowed" pictures. The guy eventually 'fessed up that this wasn't him at all. He eventually showed me his "real" pictures (but who knows if that was really him either), and he was a nice, normal guy... looking for very higher-than-normal amounts of attention.