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I am a single Christian. I've been friends with this man for a while now (also christian) and we talk now and again but everytime we do talk I've noticed that we have had a lot of deep conversations about personal aspects of our lives and we really open up to eachother and pray for the struggles we've been through. After speaking to him during this period of time I have come to realise I have strong feelings for him. I don't know If he likes me back but sometimes I feel like he does but I just don't know if he is waiting for the right time to tell me or if he just doesn't feel that way about me at all and maybe just sees me as a friend.
It's really hard being single and having such strong feelings for him seems to consume my day as he's all I can think about- I just don't want my time wasted having feelings for him if it's not meant to be so I've been asking God to take away these feelings if it is not suppose to manifest into anything and just to help me focus on his word and his will but I can't seem to give God my full focus and my love for this man hasn't gone away.
I have been praying about this for a while now and I just don't know what to do and it's come to a stage where it's almost painful to be around him because I like him that much but I don't feel like I should tell him as it's the 'mans' job to seek his wife/partner and I also would never have the confidence to tell him how I feel if I have no idea how he feels.
Singleness is a gift given from God but this makes it so much harder appreciating this when all I want is to be with him... I hope someone can give me some advice or pray that I can hear Gods voice clearer!
It's really hard being single and having such strong feelings for him seems to consume my day as he's all I can think about- I just don't want my time wasted having feelings for him if it's not meant to be so I've been asking God to take away these feelings if it is not suppose to manifest into anything and just to help me focus on his word and his will but I can't seem to give God my full focus and my love for this man hasn't gone away.
I have been praying about this for a while now and I just don't know what to do and it's come to a stage where it's almost painful to be around him because I like him that much but I don't feel like I should tell him as it's the 'mans' job to seek his wife/partner and I also would never have the confidence to tell him how I feel if I have no idea how he feels.
Singleness is a gift given from God but this makes it so much harder appreciating this when all I want is to be with him... I hope someone can give me some advice or pray that I can hear Gods voice clearer!