Chandler, I think you're great.
But I always contest this.
I have been thinking about this a lot lately, just had some triggers in my life. I would much rather have not met my ex-husband than to always know that he is happy loving someone else, and raising the children he told me we would have together with her. I'd have rather kept on believing in a bit of a fantasy... Than to experience it and have it crash and never find it again.
But *shrugs* that's just me. For all those who have loved and have no regrets, I salute you!