Flirting tips

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BatmanRSM

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#21
Well, for one, you can't flirt effectively without the attraction. So I'm assuming you have someone in mind you want to flirt with? Flirting can drive a girl nuts, so unless you have plans of taking care of the consequences, do reconsider.
There is someone I have in mind. I want to take care of the "consequences".
 
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It is best to just enter into a meaningful conversation. She will appreciate this, and it will also get the point accross that your attracted/interested. (which will flatter her if she is interested in return, and you WILL know by her responses/reactions.)

I think you will find it quite amazing how smoothly the conversation will flow if she is interested in return. There is lots to talk about when first getting to know someone. :)

I say, go for it! Best to you!


There is someone I have in mind. I want to take care of the "consequences".
 
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coby

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#24
Most guys will miss flirting, unless they are the kind of guys that make meeting women a hobby they engage in regularly.
And sometimes what seems like a flirt to you, and maybe most others, will just be how that person always is.
If in doubt don't rush.
Mat the end of the day the only person that is 100% sure of what they mean is the person whose behavior is in question.
Yes I accidentally saw one womanizer on internet when I was looking how to find out if a guy likes you. You have to ask the experts I thought. He was spot on. He found out that if a woman likes you she'll tell you making a joke and then all of a sudden do something totally different or be like haha it was just a joke, to cover it up and not look stupid if you don't like her back.
 
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FatErin

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#25
Flirting. Almost seems pointless.
for me anyway. Because people are super disappointed I'm not who I turned out to be. Idk
 
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coby

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#26
Flirting. Almost seems pointless.
for me anyway. Because people are super disappointed I'm not who I turned out to be. Idk
I thought flirting was just letting someone know you're interested. Not good at it, I'm too upfront I'm afraid. How can you behave different anyway and why on earth would you?
 
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FatErin

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#27
I thought flirting was just letting someone know you're interested. Not good at it, I'm too upfront I'm afraid. How can you behave different anyway and why on earth would you?
well I mean when you first meet someone you don't really know them. So I guess I'm a bit more happy go lucky and once they get to know me I'm not as wonderful as they thought? Who knows haha
ithink it's safe to stay away just in case
 

Lynx

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I don't think you want flirting tips. To flirt is to toy, as in "flirting with danger." You want good pickup lines and how to recognize when someone else is trying to use a pickup line.
 
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#29
There is someone I have in mind. I want to take care of the "consequences".
It is best to just enter into a meaningful conversation. She will appreciate this, and it will also get the point accross that your attracted/interested. (which will flatter her if she is interested in return, and you WILL know by her responses/reactions.)

I think you will find it quite amazing how smoothly the conversation will flow if she is interested in return. There is lots to talk about when first getting to know someone. :)

I say, go for it! Best to you!
This. Establish trust first and see how it goes from there. :)
 
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wwjd_kilden

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#30
Just do .... whatever it is people do when they make friends (don't ask me how, I'm not good at that either)
If she feels the same way about you that you do about her, stuff will probably happen
 
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coby

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#31
I don't think you want flirting tips. To flirt is to toy, as in "flirting with danger." You want good pickup lines and how to recognize when someone else is trying to use a pickup line.
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JeniBean

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#32
Wait, how old are you??? I mean flirting is different depending on the age you are and the age in which the person you want to flirt with is. Example last night I was waiting for my oldest to finish an Exam at College. While walking the grounds I had numerous men come to hit on me and flirt with me. The lines ranged from the simply, Hey beautiful are you a student here and You are stunning, please tell me you have a daughter that looks like you here, to things I cannot state on this site. I personally feel simply talking and making your body language speak the flirt works too. Then if their body language flirts back, simply ask to go get a smoothie or coffee or whatever it is you enjoy.
 

melita916

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i don't know how to flirt. lol.
 
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LiJo

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#34
Waiting for Utah....I heard he's been flirting!!! :p
 
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coby

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#35
Wait, how old are you??? I mean flirting is different depending on the age you are and the age in which the person you want to flirt with is. Example last night I was waiting for my oldest to finish an Exam at College. While walking the grounds I had numerous men come to hit on me and flirt with me. The lines ranged from the simply, Hey beautiful are you a student here and You are stunning, please tell me you have a daughter that looks like you here, to things I cannot state on this site. I personally feel simply talking and making your body language speak the flirt works too. Then if their body language flirts back, simply ask to go get a smoothie or coffee or whatever it is you enjoy.
Really? My, how I love to live in Holland where guys don't even flirt if they like you. If someone flirts here it's a creep lol or an expat.
 
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Txroads

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#36
Sorry kid on your own......

My flirtin days are over....... Lead pipe on the back of the heart does that to you......((rare post...... Just checking on blue))........
 
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Txroads

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#37
Naw kid hold on!!.... I do got a tip for ya... Don't do it... If you wanna tell somebody you like them. Come on out, cowboy up and tell them. All this flirtin junk ain't done nothin but ruin words that are supposed to truly mean somethin... And then when you try and say them they don't mean nothin cause other folks done used them to death and they lost all they're meaning.. Then you get folks that won't or can't believe what your tellin them, WHY, because those words done got used and abused..... If they never hear you using those words and then when you DO use them somethin might click with them and they'll realize,, " he wait... He ain't never said that before'.... Instead of" I've heard that all the time".... My rants over... It ain't aimed at nobody just myself....
 
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crosstweed

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#38
I don't think you want flirting tips. To flirt is to toy, as in "flirting with danger." You want good pickup lines and how to recognize when someone else is trying to use a pickup line.
Going to be really honest... unless I already know the guy and know he's just joking, or is really self-confident and can deliver it cleverly without being awkward (as well as successfully defusing my inevitably awkward and uncomfortable reaction), I find pickup lines weird and semi-desperate.

Kind of like men who wear a lot of Axe.
 
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BatmanRSM

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#39
Going to be really honest... unless I already know the guy and know he's just joking, or is really self-confident and can deliver it cleverly without being awkward (as well as successfully defusing my inevitably awkward and uncomfortable reaction), I find pickup lines weird and semi-desperate.

Kind of like men who wear a lot of Axe.
i am not taking about Pick up lines. I am looking for how to see the signs she is interested in me as something other then just friend.


Speaking of Axe is a little usage of it ok?
 
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coby

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#40
i am not taking about Pick up lines. I am looking for how to see the signs she is interested in me as something other then just friend.


Speaking of Axe is a little usage of it ok?
Yes but Brut is better and it has the Brut effect.

http://christianchat.com/christian-...body-spray-breathe-yay-breathe-out-nay-3.html

Them signs... there's thousands of youtube movies on those signs, but if a girl is shy the signs can be opposite, like staring like a creep. I listened to the youtube experts but you can't totally trust it. I made a fool of myself because the expert on youtube said that someone liked me back. Oh well. It was fun though and maybe he feels better about himself now.